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As long as all the parties are informed and consent then it is an ethical relationship. The question posed in this thread is basically asking if something that is otherwise unethical becomes ethical if the victim is an ass hole. The answer is no it does not. Unethical behavior is unethical...

Uh Uh sure, just a hypothetical. Reread your initial post again, it wasn't posed as a hypothetical. You were attempting to justify your desire to cause harm to your ex's new wife. This is the typical rationalization that people use to justify behavior they know is wrong and want to do anyway.

You know that old saying about two wrongs not making a right? Her shitty behavior doesn't justify your shitty behavior. But the very fact that you are even asking the question suggests that you have already made up your mind and are just looking for validation of your decision. Well too bad...

Well gee Vinsanity0 traffic laws don't prevent every accident, I guess that we should just do away all of them and trust people to figure it out. That's what your argument essentially boils down to. We can't create a system that is perfect so why try to do anything at all. Since we can't...

We'll the two pretty much go together, something who is already lying and misleading the person who is supposedly the most important person in their lives who have a relationship of some duration, then how can you expect any honestly whatsoever. So they are more likely to lie about things of...

As I regularly tell my wife, all a woman has to do to get laid is not say no. Now finding a partner worth having an actual relationship with is certainly harder but just finding some casual fun well the hard part is just separating the wheat from the chaff. My main concern is that your husband...

While I agree that nothing is foolproof, some due diligence is better than none.someone who's went through the level of deceit to recruit another to pretend to be their SO can't be prevented. That just goes with nothing in life being certain, but that one simple requirement is sufficient to...

I promise you that being on the receiving end of the accusation is hell of a lot better than being on the receiving end of infidelity. My policy on married playmates is very straight forward, if you want to be involved with us, you have to be willing to show that you really are in an open...

Why the objection to providing basic confirmation that your partner is indeed aware that they are in aneed open relationship? Having been on the receiving end of infidelity I would not want to be party to putting someone else through that pain. Self deception, lying and deceit are the primary...

I've noticed this tendency in submissives to worry so much about being a burden on their Dom(s). To question whether it makes them a "bad" sub. Here's the thing, part of what makes a Dom a Dom in the first place is the desire to be needed. To provide the stability support and protection that...

I don't doubt that he loves you nor that it is possible to love more than one person. My issue is that he still behaved like a selfish prick. Does he at least realize how awful his behavior was towards you? Your reactions are not due to your own insecurities they are the result of someone you...

Edit: bleh should have looked at the date before posting. Your husband isn't poly, he's a cheater. He denied you the information that you needed to make informed decisions about your life. He could have behaved in an honorable and ethical manner and tell you before beginning his affair so that...