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I get your point, yet still in my case it seems like he viewed our relationship as a casual one, while I was sure it was a poly one. The ease with which he let me know, and through a text, not even expecting that it would be hurtful to me since I've got someone else... That's why I think he...

It's what I feel. He explicitly said, when we broke up, that he was open to new people (obviously), not necessarily someone mono. That 'necessarily' was something I hadn't thought about - who in their right mind would want a relationship with someone who at any moment could jump ship? Yes, it's...

My experience with poly-corious: awful, NEVER again!!! After him knowing and agreeing with a poly relationship, things were developing well, or so I thought. Then I got a text (yesterday) saying that he's seeing someone else (for like a week) and she's not into polyamory. It was a funny text...

Actually I later realized that what I wanted was a way to explain poly that would ensure it wouldn't sound crazy. Then I realized that's not something that's entirely in my hands... all i can do is tell it how it is, then it's up to the other person. But i deffinetly have to never repeat this...

I appreciate your answers. Just an update, it actually went well and after giving her some space she says she feels confortable with the idea, so we are still dating and getting to know each other better :)

Thanks, that helps, I'm really new to this. And I'm definetly feeling the pressure on probably having to lead the conversention, which also scares me a bit not being that great at small talk

Haven't noticed, thanks!! :) It's what we've agreed on, I guess she needed time to process this new information, which I understand. Hoping not to get hurt :/ but I guess that's a risk in any relashionship (so lets have multiple relashionships xD) That's true, and we've talked a lot about this...

I'm also having trouble in this area. The person I started seeing recently wants to meet my boyfriend. I'm ok with that, but not absolutely sure if my boyfriend is up for it... And to be sincere I'm affraid it might be an awkward encounter. How do I act towards them? How not make it too uptight...

Hi! I'm sort of in a hard situation and needing some advice from whom has much more experience that me :confused: How do you explain it to someone new and non poly, when you are currently in a relationship? What are some issues/topics that really need to be adressed (afraid of missing...