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Yeah, thanks for all that. Appreciate the support.

I would hope so, considering it was her idea originally. I would have never even considered it a few years ago. I've had to grow as a person and learn how to open myself up to possibility more. Dani's been in poly relationships before this one, so I imagine she can handle it. It's too late to...

Thanks. I looked at the post you mentioned and I am aware of some of the things mentioned... and I know we're guilty of saying a few of them. I am actively trying to move us away from using any kind of couples privilege because I want Rae to feel like an equal primary partner in the triad, not a...

Yeah, somewhat. I forgot to mention the other bonus to this... the night they're both volunteering, I get some time alone! By myself! As an introvert this is something really important to me (which I have been pretty much completely lacking for... well, 3 years now.) The closest to "alone time"...

Poohbear, I would like to PM you because your situation sounds a lot like the what's happening with my girlfriend. My fiance who I have been with for 3 years acts a little bit like the way you describe S in your story. She doesn't really yell or fight with us... but she's rather insecure about...

Quick update... ... So, Dani and Rae have both started volunteering in the evenings, and have decided to do the same hours one day, one of them go and the other stay home one day, and vice-versa for the final day they volunteer each week. So that'll be two evenings a week where I get one-on-one...

That's all I'm hoping for with Dani and Rae, and when we all talk together we all seem to agree with that. :/ I'm just hoping all of us being in therapy will help us with our problems.

Hello there. I've been with my fiance, Dani, for 3 years now, we've got plans to get married, probably next year sometime. I'll admit that our relationship has been rocky as of late, largely because of her debilitating chronic illness (Rheumatoid Arthritis) and our perpetual financial wreckage...

Dani is working with the department of vocational rehabilitation and the department of social security to apply for disability and attempt to go back to college sometime soon. Rae is job hunting, yes. I mean, I don't think they're MOSTLY having sex while I'm at work but I know that that is...

I'll definitely keep that in mind. There have been a lot of moments where I question my career choice, but... It's just kinda where life lead me, and I really like my job. So... them's the breaks.

Magdlyn, Thank you for the welcome and yes, I have been on the site and read a lot of their articles. I love the article on couples privilege and am trying very hard to avoid treating our third in any way like we (our original dyad) has any privilege to wield over her. It's difficult to...

Nadya, I understand all that... It probably wasn't the most desirable thing to happen, but Rae ended up needing to quit her job as a live-in health aid for the woman she was working for (She was emotionally abusive, and treated her like an indentured servant rather than an employee) and had...

Male in FFM Triad Hello there. I'm so glad you're here and that you're okay with me asking for some advice... I've been with my fiance, Dani, for 3 years now, we've got plans to get married, probably next year sometime. I'll admit that our relationship has been rocky as of late, largely because...

Why my name is Narball So... this is but one of my online monikers, but let's get into this story... When I was 18, I had two best friends and we liked to partake in the inhalation of the smoke of a particular herb occasionally. On one particular night, we were enjoying ourselves. Friend A...

Good morning! My name is Nate, I'm fairly new to this whole thing, though I've been involved with people in the poly community most of my adult life. I've been with my fiance, Dani, since July of 2013. We recently got involved in a swingers chat group, and that's how we met Rae who is now our...