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MrFarFromRight: your post second from above was highly inappropriate. I understand that you feel I am being selfish and doing things incorrectly, but that could have been expressed in a more caring manner. Resulting to teasing and sarcasm is really, really not cool. Your point makes sense...

MrFarFromRight: sorry to hear about your stories and having to struggle with similar experiences. It's so hard, the way trauma and abuse cycles back and forth affecting everything it touches. The world needs so much healing right now and I think it's very good that you have the introspection...

nycindie, thank you so much for your post. It was hard to read and while I don't think it was entirely what was happening, you did touch upon a big part of it. I think after hearing too much of SUN and BOB's relationship interaction I began going into a fight-or-flight PTSD mode when I was...

MrFarFromRight: Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart, for such your thoughtful and informative posts. Your words help a lot! yeah, I've been SO deep in this all week, heh. I met up with SUN 2x more times this week and it's been intense. Many more hours talking and some crying as...

Thanks for the advice everyone, I've read every post and all your input has been extremely valuable :) I met up with her (SUN) yesterday and we had a really long talk (for about 4 hours, actually!) I learned a little more about what has been going on. But most importantly, I talked with her...

How about lets name her what you mention, SUN. I think thats a much nicer name. Thanks for pointing this out. This sentence was directed towards BOB, but I must say, this might just be my frustration talking. BOB is very skillful words and talking the talk, but I don't think he is walking...

ahh thanks so much for the replies everyone!!! this is helping so much :D:D It's 8:45am here and I slept all of 30min last night. I guess this stuff is weighing heavier on me than i thought. Glad I stopped tossing and turning in bed and found this site instead (sorry that rhymed). Firstly, I...

Hey Tinwen, Thanks so much for your quick response. I was really hoping for a reply before I talk to her later today and this helps a lot. you make so many good points. I didnt think about it, but you are right that taking on a new partner who was not poly is a pretty bad choice, especially...

Hey all, new here with my relationship dilemma :P ...so I feel like I've been digging myself a bit of a whole into a new poly relationship and could really use some perspectives on things. I'll just start with my main question: What is the best way to date someone in a poly relationship who...

Hey all! not sure why or how it took me so long to be like, "hey, I bet theres a cool poly forum online" - but here I am! I've always loved online forums the most for learning in all aspects of life, and am very grateful to the communities that create and maintain them. Any other 80s babies...