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    Doubts! Closing open/poly relationship?

    This makes a lot of sense! I never really had a stable and long lasting relationship in the past. In my previous relationship, my partner cheated on me multiple times but I still wanted to work things out. It took me a lot of time to decide that breaking up was the right thing to do because we...
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    Doubts! Closing open/poly relationship?

    Thanks for your advice :) I will do some research and (try to) talk about it with him!
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    Doubts! Closing open/poly relationship?

    Thank you all very much! Just writing about these problems and trying to find a 'structure' in the story, gives me a lot of insight! He already goes to therapy. I suggested this a while ago when he was very stressed and feeling down. But he's not a good talker so he (and the therapist) both...
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    Doubts! Closing open/poly relationship?

    Thank you for your answer! As I said in my previous reply: I'm convinced that I can be poly, or at least have an open relationship. I'm sure that I can give my boyfriend his freedom and also allow myself to enjoy another man. Yesterday, after posting this story, I asked my boyfriend what his...
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    Doubts! Closing open/poly relationship?

    You are completely right, but I think it's a good sign that he's trying. A month ago we started foreplay and then he would suddenly stop,say that he's not in the mood, turn around and go to sleep. While now, he tries to create and keep a sexual atmosphere. I don't know what other way there is...
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    Doubts! Closing open/poly relationship?

    Hi everyone, First of all: I’m new here and it’s the first time I talk with other polyamorous people about my relationship. Usually I wouldn’t ask advice from strangers online, but I feel like you could give me insight and share the expertise I need. I also already apologize for the language...
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