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    Help desperately needed

    That's the big question. All I know is that he was looking through old photos and bawling about how much he missed me/us. You know, back before any of this started and we were each other's whole world. But today I found more disturbing updates to his FetLife profile...... Even after I clearly...
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    Help desperately needed

    All of your advice is spot on. We didn't realize either one of us were Dom until way later in the marriage. We married young, and only after exposure to the scene around year 16 ish, did he decide dominating other women made him feel power and ego boost. I'm hoping it's a midlife crisis...
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    Help desperately needed

    My mind has been a mess, so I'll try to elaborate. "It" was going to swingers events. We had the understanding that I didn't like him playing bdsm with other women, but he did, so we limited the activities to basically a class or seminar....but while I was there, it was apparent that he was...
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    Help desperately needed

    Thank you. The whole she meets what I lack discussion was my observation that he thought about and later agreed with. He didn't just come out and tell me that. In every other way, he has been more kind, loving and thoughtful than almost any other hubby we know. We have daughter. We're both...
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    Help desperately needed

    Ive been in a pretty amazing marriage to my best friend and soulmate for 21 years. My husband and I started going to polyamory events because it was something interesting although we never intended on much participation. It was also a way to market our adult business at the time. And he loved...
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