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This was my first reaction too, but i love challenging myself and since I can’t find an answer, i’ll Question you. Why is this disrespect? She loves him, he loves her, she is in love with another, it’s normal for her to feel like that etc. Should she hide what she feels? Or is this a time thing...

As Madelyn already said and from my personal experience, it’s extremely hard for men to see patriarchy because they have practically never been mistreated. I’m exaggerating to make a point. It is accepted from our society for thousands of years apparently, that men own women. This of course...

Hm. I have to agree with lunabunny and I was wondering why no one else has mentioned it. Are you in love with her? If not, you don’t have to be in a triad with her. From my point of view, being in a triad with a third that you don’t have feelings for is devastating. It does feel like you are...

Having a cake and eating it too for me also means that you want to have other relationships but you’re not ok with her having them. I don’t think you guys have come to this point yet, but you should be ready to accept that. Are you ready for her having other relationships? I absolutely LOVED...

It goes without saying that if the P of the OPP knows he is being unfair but just wants to take it slowly, that it can be the first step to poly. I do agree that the same applies to all rules and boundaries. I am extremely new to this lifestyle, but from I am understanding, setting rules is...

Loved this!! ^^

We can't help you see this rationally because it is not rational. I am sure there are more things in the relationship that make you feel uncomfortable but you might be choosing to ignore them. Look for them and then you will see what all of us are seeing. It might feel like we are attacking...

Yes it was a PITA (had to google it lol). I say was as we talked about it and I finally think he got it. He seems to be ok with it. Time will tell. I just hope that his persistence was indeed because he thought I wanted this as much and not because he's trying to wear me down. He has said...

I do understand his disappointment of course! What I don't like is that he is pressuring me so much. I am not withholding this from him and I am really into it. I don't like games. I actually get turned on by seeing a partner with another woman,but I haven't done it yet! Thing is, this is so new...

Hello again. I've been struggling to post a thread about this. Long story short, I backed out on a specific girl we found for a threesome and now he's disappointed. Good thing is we're talking about it, that's why the situation is always changing. Long nice talks. At first he seemed to be very...

I'm new to this forum too but also to poly so I can't offer advice, but I must welcome you to this wonderful place! The only thing I want to add is that there is no right or wrong in relationships,it's just about what works for you and what makes you happy!

Thank you! 😁

Singles aren't either. At least that's my take. Maybe this just proves to me that I'm ready for poly,or always was. Excellent question. I was ready to answer you and he contacted me. So I'm happy,but I will still answer as it was a lovely question and I was struggling on it. I hate games, but...

I'm as new as it gets on this forum too,but welcome! It's nice here!

I think I scared him off. If this is the case I don't know why. We've already admitted that we like each other that wasn't new. The only thing I added was I want to get to know you better before we proceed. I know it was too soon, but so was the threeway. Well, I feel a bit sad. I know that...

Thank you for the clarification! Had no idea! About the fmf, I am interested in it with feelings and without. Let me explain. If I had no feelings for someone and we were to do that, there would be no problem whatsoever. That was my plan. If I have feelings for someone and we jump into it too...

Thank you so much for your replay! I do need someone to talk to right now! I do like how some of the "relationships"I have are progressing very slow. They probably won't go anywhere, but I sure have made more friends, and that is somewhere, come to think of it! Fortunately, I'm pretty good...

That's actually very thorough! Thank you! It is more clearer! So i do have multiple partners, they know that the other exist (no details) but I can't call them relationships. I wouldn't call any of them in a moment of crisis. I do tell the men I meet that I am polygamous. Back to my main...

I really am starting to see the need to slow down a bit.Fortunately the jealousy has left me, but probably because all these other thoughts came into the picture. What do I want from him? What do I want from me? Can I handle this? And most of all the thought of having no answers and and actually...

Excellent read! "I’m an individual who has important and open intimate relationships with other individuals, when it feels right." Isn't that just being single? That's definitely similar to what Im doing now. I haven't had anyone that important in my life to be dependent on (the years I've been...