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    I must have a large karmic debt...

    Thanks P, I'll PM you my location - I'd hate anyone to put two and two together by coming across my post, as what's happened would make a real mess in our community. Is there much of a poly environment in Melbourne, and if so, how do I make contact?
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    I must have a large karmic debt...

    Cheers. No, nothing that drastic. I'm have residency in Australia, but my family and friends that are independent of hers are all back in my birthplace. She figured that I might want to leave to have their support if we separated. We've discussed separation previously - I could have as much...
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    I must have a large karmic debt...

    I love her, and I hate the thought of our 3 year-old daughter growing up in a broken home. The little girl is such a beautiful and precious thing. And yep, why wasn't she thinking of that before deciding to lie? She was addicted to the moment and couldn't give it up. She even told me that while...
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    I must have a large karmic debt...

    That's OK. I wouldn't say I'm happy having an open relationship - the concept was there, and yep, I wish she had talked to me first, or immediately after the one-nighter. That would have been different. Still debating whether I should leave her. She becomes very self-centered/me-first when she...
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    I must have a large karmic debt...

    Thanks I'm guessing you must get a little tired with monos trying to work out what the hell just happened to their lives? I've known my partner has a massive capacity to love, and I think I do to - both to give her the room she would like, and potentially explore polyamory myself. I just wish...
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    I must have a large karmic debt...

    I am, to the best of my knowledge, a mono. My de-facto partner has made her decision that she is poly known about 8 months ago after I discovered her affair. We live in a small rural community, and we're both members of our volunteer fire brigade. We had a close friendship with the captain of...
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