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I always talk about these things before jumping in bed with someone. It's almost always kind've awkward to bring up, but once you get the ball rolling, you can just power through it. I've had a vasectomy, so pregnancy is no longer an issue for me to worry about. Now I just have to worry about...

I agree. An open relationship would be fine to me as well, but I'm afraid of dating someone just to date someone if I know they're not poly or open. It feels like I'd just be wasting both of our time with something that isn't going to work out if 1 of us doesn't decide to change our...

I thought the same thing, but I imagine that's just a ballpark number and not a hard rule. Probably depends on how well the conversation goes, how responsive they're both able to be. If you can only find time (or remember) to pick up your phone and text or use the app to send the message once or...

Yes, OkCupid is free. There is an A-List premium feature that gets you some added perks, but it's completely optional. Without it, you still get full functionality - meaning you can fill out your profile, upload up to 10 pictures, search people effectively, and message back and forth without...

I had to re-read this a couple times because I wanted to make sure I understood exactly what happened. I also read through the thread, and it did get a bit heated there for a minute... Well, here's my thoughts from a random new guy to the forum who's never actually been in a poly relationship...

Haha, that's a good analogy. Thank you for that. Also, thank you for that group link! That's so much bigger of a group than the one I'm in already. My FB Poly group is only at...maybe 70ish members? This one is near 800. That's stellar. You guys are alright :)

That's where my head has been at for the last few months. I've been wishing that I could just turn this...intrigue off. Wish that I could turn off my desire to keep on searching even when I had someone. It almost feels like an obsession, and my head tends to treat it as such. I guess I end up...

Figured introductory thread was an obligatory thing, so here's mine. I'm Zack (or sometimes Daniel) and I'm 31. I live in the Tulsa area of OK (Sand Springs specifically). I work for department of human services as an office assistant, as well as I'm working on learning real estate investing...