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Thank you all for the advice, I think I am definitely not prepared for all the ways this could end badly, and perhaps I am just seeing/hearing things I want to see. If I can't find the confidence to tell him how I feel, perhaps that is my gut telling me this is a bad idea. Anyways, thank you...

So here is the rundown, Hubby and I will be together 17 years this fall, we are awesome, we communicate very well, and are best friends, I was poly earlier in our marriage, had a bf and gf, she died, he broke up with me, and for a few years it was just hubby and I, now I've been feeling the...

Thank you both for the welcome Swirl and Kevin. And thank you Kevin for the advice, I will think on it and see what I'm willing to brave, for now I am keeping my feelings to myself, and if nothing drastic changes R and I are possibly going to a social event together in the middle of May, is it...

"Polyamory" tv show on Showtime Has anyone been watching? what are your thoughts? (if posted in the wrong section, admis please move to correct section)

Heyla folks whom were here last time I was about, been a few years, I took a break from poly as my lady love died, my hubby of heart kinda dumped me and just focused on my husband and I. Hubby and I are awesome, talk and communicate so well, but I've been feeling the desire for another in my...

Mono - This is without a doubt one of the most awesome things I've ever heard!! I love how it sounds, what it implies, and how it makes me feel to imagine it :D you truly are an awesome person, I enjoy how much you and RP share with us all on here

and Derby makes a great arguement, some folks are not interested in/don't feel the need to come out to everyone they know, that is definitely an option, bottom line you have to choose what feels right for you, do you want to be open with everyone? or just a certain few? its your decision, and...

simple answer - I don't, when it becomes obvious they can't handle the real me, then I simply either find the least painful quickest way to not have them in my life, or I assume the "glamour" I wore before opening up to them and simply "be whom they can accept me as" if its important enough to...

oh labels, labels, labels labels I see as being good for very minor short inadequate firt glimspes into our personal world by an outsider, but yes I'd love it if we all took more time to simply get to know each other and see where we fit together if we do instead of forcing labels that barely...

this whole thread is confusing to me, at different points in my life I would've been on both sides of this, so no idea where others would put me, tho I admit I don't much give a fig what others think of me, aside from those I love and I'd like to think those I love wouldn't think negatively of...

some people love labels, some really dont like them, me, I use them when it suits my needs and or purposes does my definition fit everyone elses? most definitely not, which is why i've been told i explain things to death, cause i try to leave no gray area, i use labels and i explain what i...

reading - mainly online recently, and fanfic mostly writing - i write erotica and fanfic flirting - with my firends/loves and whomever else lets me get away with it movies or tv shows - currently on a dr who/primeval/firefly kick and watchign one of those shows each night lately playing WoW...

First, let me say I just love the way Legion put it. That sounds very wonderful, happy and full of love, to me. The only thing I'd like to add would be in my "perfect" ideal, all my loves would live closer. Within the same state would be lovely. I do like the idea of sharing the same space...

Congratulations Mono and Redpepper!! :)

(quoting this part here as I'm seeing it as being the 'big question' te respond to) for me, they would be the same regardless if your a perspective love or friend or somewhere in the middle no lies - this to me is crucial and i define this as being no big/important info type of lies, big stuff...

I have more one-on-one experience. As of yet, Master has decided he's too shy about our play time to go out and "scene" in front of people, but he has just recently taken me out on two occasions while wearing my collar and leash. A small step, but very invigorating, and I loved every minute...

calicowgirl - thank you for sharing all that :) LovingRadiance - oh no worries, I just didn't wanna hog the whole thread or keep babbling if no one was interested is all Erosa - don't worry none hun, some folks like labels, some don't, find what you like and express liking it however makes you...

signed up and checking it out, thank you Redpepper! :)

I'm on OKC, same nick, actually just about anywhere online you find "vampiresscammy" its more than likely me haven't met anyone through OKC I didn't already know in person, so no opinions about that particular site being helpful or not, but met my hubby of heart and my late wifey online, I...

I'll answer all the questions I saw in the posts.... why would you want to get to "subspace"? - simply put, yes, it is one of the most euphoric states to feel both in body and mind its simply pure bliss, no other way to explain it aftercare - is an absolute must!! as is complete trust...