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he's not quite ready to yet, but plans on getting on here soon to start researching...

oh yeah, and he feels that just by talking to this other guy, even as friends only, that i am starting the process of cheating, and by just admitting feelings to someone else i have cheated, where my definitions of cheating differ from his in that we haven't done anything (and definitely don't...

i found out he over-exaggerates things before they hit his brain, and we are working on that...

he was open at first, i had read a lot and presented it to him in a way he would listen to, but felt we needed to work on us first, which i agreed with, and the friendship with the other guy was kept at just friendship (long distance so just texts and a few online messages). however, my husband...

good luck, not sure if this will help but sounds similar... i recently came out to my husband. my mistake was that it took finding i had feelings for someone else, and not wanting to just let the chance to explore those feelings slip away, and that i talked a little with my friend first before...

now that the idea has sunk in, he's experiencing a lot more jealousy and insecurity, so we are taking some us tiime, doing special things without the kids around, etc... we are definitely talking a lot more - this helped open up communication between us a lot - and i just need to be patient and...

*glowing* went better than i thought it would, definitely taking it slow and set boundaries already with plans on revisiting them after he thinks some more... thank you to everyone for support and most importantly to this forum - i read a LOT and i think it really helped me to use examples from...

I'm telling him tonight after work... while I am nervous and scared about the changes this will bring and mostly about how he'll react, there is a deep peaceful calm inside me that makes me think I am making the right decision...

I found this interesting in the article: "I'm tired of "poly" people who lie, betray or otherwise use and abuse their partners, and then think that nothing more than the words "I'm sorry" should resolve everything." Interesting because it's not just a 'poly' issue, it happens in all...

my hubby and i have been using a spermicide film (VCF) since i had a tubal pregnancy rupture - he got me pregnant within a month of us dating! - and since i have latex issues and don't entirely trust non-latex condoms (although still looking into them), horrible pill experience, bad depo...

I am sorry to hear that Zahnfee... hopefully being able to start future relationships with your newly found self knowledge will increase your chances of happiness :)

I love it! I'm having the talk this weekend, but much more easing into it and talking about feelings, the other guy being hours away and not flaunted, lol... although if my hubby stayed that calm I'd probably go into shock - I'm expecting broken stuff to clean up later... the video helps me see...

hi, I am in the same boat pretty much, except I'm married... http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html has been helpful as well as reading a lot of posts on here... the best quote i found was "If you are not happy in your relationship, you're not going to make your partner happy." I am researching...

Hello everyone! I am not sure where to start... after reading about 15 pages of posts I think I should be labeled as a serial monogamist but think I would prefer an open poly relationship... I have 2 girls from high school relationships. At this time I am still friends with both fathers. I was...