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Thank you! I know I keep thanking you, but what you're saying to me is very meaningful and it makes me feel less terrible. These last few weeks, I was thinking that I was just being stubborn, old-fashioned, possessive, or close-minded. I might just share what you wrote with him so he can see...

Hi, GalaGirl. Thank you for responding. He said if we DID do a separation, he'd want it for a year, but I was the one who was kind of nervous of separating for that long. He definitely wants to have someone on the side and continue to enjoy our relationship as it has been. He told me he...

Thank you to everyone who took the time to respond to my original post. I've had many deep conversations with my husband to try to find some kind of compromise that will make us both happy. During these discussions, I've realized that he doesn't want just sex as I originally thought. He would...

Probably yes, if I’m going to be honest. At the back of my mind, I’m convinced this is the end of our marriage anyway because I’m hurt by all this and he’s clearly not happy.

Not just fuck buddies per se, but dates. And yes, it would be out of spite to a great degree because I don’t want to sleep with anyone else.

That’s a good question. I don’t know. He says he doesn’t have anyone in particular in mind, but I’m sure he knows women at work who like him.

I think so too, but he says he doesn’t want to sleep with someone who doesn’t actually want it and he would want it more often than what I’m willing to agree to right now.

Hi, everyone. I realize this subject has been beaten to death, but I'm desperate for some advice. My husband of 10 years has made it clear from the onset that he and other men have a desire to sleep with other women. Over this ten-year period, he's brought up the subject of being in an open...