Search results

Redpepper, Thank you so much for that reply. Honestly, the fact that it wasn't about the original post is absolutely wonderful. I have been watching a seminar tonight on marriage by a man named Mark Gungor, how the differences between how men and women think has a lot to do with many things...

RP, I actually agree with much of what is in the document that you shared. I think that often DaJoshy is sarcastic. I have often said, "If it weren't for sarcastic remarks, he wouldn't remark at all." But honestly, Josh is honest to a fault. Lucy wanted him to tell her he loved her. He said...

It kinda is, and he knows that I think it is a insecurity of his, and that I think he is sometimes grandiose. We have no secrets from each other or anyone else. It wasn't a "we versus her" till after she cheated. I mean, honestly, she cheated on both of us. Of course WE would be upset and take...

You know, it occurs to me that maybe I am not understanding something here. Or maybe others aren't understanding things. We were in a triad, with the three of us being in a relationship. The agreement was that we would be faithful to the three of us. The agreement was also that we would...

It's ok DaJoshy, I am angry and hurt as well to find out what I did on that day. I was saddened to wake up in the morning to my computer being left on and her conversation with him left on the screen. I am sad to say that I did look through the past messages, not sad because I found out who...

You make very good points. Josh does have issues with insecurity. He says he doesn't know why he feels differently about having multiple women in the relationship, but not multiple men. Honestly, the situation has never come up before, because, well, I am not interested in any way shape or form...

Those are all very astute observations from everyone. Yes, communication was an issue. I don't know so much about the "us versus her" thing, because that really didn't come up till after the relationship was over. The agreement that Josh be the only man was something that we all discussed a...

My husband Josh and I were in a 6-month relationship with a 24-year old unicorn, Lucy. The relationship was great for the first few months. About 3 months into our relationship, the situation came up that her room in the house Lucy was staying at was being given to another person, so she was...

Minxxa, thank you sooo much for your reply. I felt so bad because I love them both and have been trying so hard to not make any "rules" but it just seemed like this one was a safety thing for the family as well. I don't have to see these people often, but when I do I dont want it to be...

It's ok, I didn't write in order for you to see it as something to make you feel bad. DJ and I talked about it today and before I said anything I wanted to get some opinions, unfortunately no one else read the post and I wasn't able to get any perspectives before you got home and saw it and we...

I have been having some thoughts and concerns and wanted to bring them up here to ask about others experiences with this. I am writing to you because I dont know if this is jealousy (I don't think it is) or if it is my true internal safety mechanism that tells me things aren't a good idea...

I know you were babygirl! And I love you for that. Honestly, the big reason I was ok with me going with him was becaue you would be here caring for our beloved animals and I know you would do an excellent job as you love them as your own, even crabby old Sarah LOL

My name comes from the moniker I use in my Non Profit Org. It is a name that is made up to be used as a character for a blog that goes along with my Org. It actually has to do with superman but with it just being CLariceK and not the entire name I use on FB (because that would just be too easy...

I have considered that, but after taking 40MG of Haldol at a pop, and the voices still being there and my doctor saying "40 MG of haldol would down a horse, what are you doing calling me about being manic" I kinda decided that I needed to either come to decide that they are there to stay (they...

I have to agree with this 100%. In our triad there are things that DO pertain to only the two of us who are married (DaJoshy and I). There are things that he talks to me about that he doesnt bring up to SluttyUnicorn not because it isnt her business or anything like that, but because she isnt...

Awww thank you babydoll!!!! I love you too!!!

You also have to look at the statistical anomaly of the increase of BP diagnosis in the last 20 years. If you look at the incidence of bipolar diagnosis over the last 40 years the incidence has increased dramatically. Along with the increase of diagnosis has also increased the number of...

I absolutely agree. Kids shouldn't know about the sex. SluttyUnicorn has a daughter, and an ex who takes LittleGIrl (LG) for visits. LG has been raised somewhat poly, in that her mom has had multiple partners before, and it is not unusual for LG to se her mom in bed with numerous people. Because...

I had a very hard morning this morning after a number of days of anxiety about possibly having to end my relationship with my therapist (SuperShrink) (I want to make it clear I use relationship in the clinical sense here, I am not "in a relationship" with my shrink LOL) after 10 years of seeing...

Ugggh I hate when that happens. I do it all the time being the head of and founder of a nonprofit I end up reading about "This new site that is essential to your non profits success" and then I join and am lost and feeling like I am missing out because I am not using this essential site LOL I...