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Wow! It has been about a year since I last posted about hitting a stumbling block with the poly lifestyle my wife and I are living. We are still together (stronger than ever) and we are still poly. But things have been changing for me. A year ago, attracting a poly girlfriend was almost...

Thank you for responding. You're probably right about the time issue. We've got two weeks to wait before any kind of physical intimacy will be possible. (She had a medical procedure today that precludes such activity for awhile.) You also hit the nail on the head about her feeling pressured...

Thanks for responding. That particular rule does make perfect sense if you seriously want to follow the Primary/Secondary role definitions. Doing something outside of your primary committed relationship implies that your primary isn't really your primary. It reduces everyone to a secondary...

Thank you for your response. We make sure that all potential secondaries know what our rules for each other are and that those rules should be respected. We are not deceiving any of them.

My wife and I opened up our marriage this past January after kicking the idea around for almost a year. (No, we didn't just jump blindly into it.) Before we agreed to embark upon this venture, we discussed and agreed to a set of rules designed to protect our marriage. The rules are as...

New to the forum and new to polyamory. My wife and I decided to open our marriage back in January. We've hit a few stumbling blocks along the way but that a discussion for another forum. Hope to make some good friends here and to talk about some very important topics. Thanks!