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Thank you for this, I never knew about this until I'd say much recently in the past few years. I never really understood it but I understand it much better now. However I don't think it is for me so I will make sure I get into monogamous relationships. We just had so much in common besides that...

I should've mention I mean that as in a group setting. On dates we were fine.

Yes, I'd like to be better in this part. I'm afraid it's not something I can expect a person to confront me in the moment with because some people just can't. So I will be more aware of this, it's never my intent to be harmful just sometimes I FEEL a certain way and have a knee jerk reaction to...

I've always been told by her everything I feel is valid which I appreciate for her understanding. It's not so much that someone has told me I'm sensitive but I've be told sometimes I can be insensitive. I grew up in a household where we didn't hug or talk much about feelings or show affection so...

Thank you for all your replies, polyamory isn't for me and I know it. I love spending time even if it's everyday with my partner. Knowing the kind of person I am, I would not feel comfortable however I understand why a person may choose it. When I go through tough times I want to understand from...

I understand much more what you're trying to explain to me. Are you saying why why as in why is this happening? Or why why as in I'm asking why this and why that? I'm more on the why this and why that, seeing where I may be able to improve not for anyone but improve for my next relationship and...

Thank you for all your answers, I appreciate it. I won't talk to her now but if she calls me in the future to talk about it, which she might, is my thought process correct? I've read there was quite a few people who cheated or tried hard not to cheat during their transition from monogamy to...

Yes I meant to just have some words and let her be my ex, not be friends and hang out or talk but don't hesitate if you desperately need someone to talk about a problem. The dilemma is her feeling poly but in a monogamous relationship, she feels a certain way but can't act on it because of the...

I see where you're coming from and you're right. I know one of the biggest reasons polyamory works is because of really good communication and yes there was a lack of it especially with cheating behind my back part. I just thought maybe she wants to be polyamorous but was forced to be monogamous...

My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me and since the beginning she didn't make it clear she was polyamorous but she was saying she doesn't think she can do monogamy. I love this girl in ways I never thought I could love anyone before. It was the only relationship where I felt 100% myself, I...