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Well said and definately understood!

Let me just say again how thankful i am for all of your inputs, its so wonderful to find so many strangers willing to give advice in a time of needing to talk to people who wont think im a freak. . As far as them sleeping together again, Thats the idea,nothing will happen further until we reach...

Hah, it only copied like that. i see your point though, i still felt like, i have nothing tolose since i dont have anything to begin with, so why not say it all and say in my most authentic way, i have stacks of similar "letters" from preious lovers and friends, i kind of figured that there...

So went back and read my letter to her, just to see what it was i did adress, it seems pretty clear to me, it does seem pretty obvious that shes not ready to talk about this with me. Poor me:-) Here it is if you want to take a gander, but it wnot hurt my feeling if you dont want to read it...

I love that quote. Thanks again to all of you for taking the time to write, it really helpful, what a great community, perhaps one day ill have advice to give back:-)

She has had relationships with women and fukly identies a bi, but as abi woman myself i understand that there so many degrees to being bi and that some women who may be open to sex with a woman may actually more be more inclined to be be with a man long term. I find myself married to man, but...

You are so right about communication, its so hard to know where to start, id love the dialog and its totally my way of interacting to talk about everything, but i guess i just havent found the language that would keep the topic comfortable her. i dont want to come accross as "i like you, he...

Thanks, i should add that the reason i put "love letter" in quotes was to note that it wasnt quite that. I basically a told her that there had been shift in my feelings of friendshsip and no matter what i hoped that she felt comfortable, that we didnt mean to descend on her in a predatory...

Thanks for reply, though it did come off a bit harsh,i understand my language might have made it sound confusing, i just use that flowery language. I understand what you are saying,and of course hold no false ideas as to what such a early stage relationship or lack there of might hold. I guess...

so i have been scouring this forum all morning. Im pretty impressed with the thoughtful dialog and responses. Thank you all for providing this resourse. SOO.. To my question. Since i was a little girl had imagined a polyfi relationship. Never knowing how to get to that point i found and...