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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    I've never experienced this combination of brain chemistry and sexual energy before. I find women very sexually attractive/arousing all of the time, but I've never been this close to any of them since I rarely experience strong connections with people, and so the sexual energy alone has never...
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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    I supppse the difficulty here is thst I can't force things to be even more fun with Lizzie. It is something that really needs to happen naturally and organically. It is possible that NRE is playing a part with Rosie, but with that said, I don't think I've ever had quite this much fun with Lizzie...
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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    Yes that is true, which is why I do think under different circumstances something would have happened between me and Rosie. There has been jealousy from Lizzie, and also from Rosie's boyfriend. I can't speak for Rosie's boyfriend but as far as Lizzie is concerned, I think this is mostly due to...
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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    Here's a few random tidbits that may be indicative of the amusingly confusing situation... - Rosie thinks the staff at her work probably think we are having an affair - Rosie's son at home: "Does Lovetriangle live here?" / Rosie: "No, mummy lives with boyfriend, mummy doesn't live with friend"...
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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    In relation to splitting my time equally, I realise that this is not required but it leaves me feeling torn as I wish I could give them both everything. And since that is not possible, and Lizzie is my priority, Rosie would always miss out. And so, if she wasn't already in a relationship with...
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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    Thank you for the welcome. OK, so from here on out my partner will be known as Lizzie and my friend will be known as Rosie. :) Yeah, I find Rosie very physically attractive. It is very easy for me to identify what sort of female forms I find arousing, because my mind naturally notices patterns...
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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    Thank you. :) I've been familiar with the terminology for a very long time. I first started to consider if I am poly when me and this other woman became close friends 6 months' ago, but it was just one of the endless possibilities my mind was obsessively considering as I tried to make sense of...
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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    Please feel free to ask me anything. Yes she is well informed and is an amazing supportive partner. The development of my friendship with this other woman has not been an easy one, to say the very least. I won't go into unecessary details now, but I'll just say it did involve me relapsing into...
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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    And so here we are... Yes, my partner is aware of everything. I had always just assumed I was mono, but perhaps this was simply because I'd never experienced the love I have for my partner for anyone else. Especially considering my disability and how this has always limited my relationships...
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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    And so, the other woman. We have known each other for about a year and a half, and over the past 6 months slowly went from being acquaintences to really close friends. She works at the animal shelter where I have been volunteering for 2 years. I also love her to bits, and although she has some...
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    In love with two women. Realising I am probably poly?

    Hi everyone. I'm not sure why I am here, except perhaps looking for a safe place to share... Possibly discovered in later life that I am poly. 35 year old male, high functioning Aspie. Had social difficulties for most of my life and struggled to bond with people in general. Suffered with...
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