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He didn't want me to go farther with the other man than he did with the other women. Sorry if that was unclear. I felt guilty on my own. He did say the first thing. I can't shake the guilt, because it does seem selfish to me in some regards.

He trusted me to not do anything he didn't want me to and/or to understand his wishes better.

I think I'm just going to not bring it up for a while (like another week or so), and then tip my toe back into the discussion. He has said that he feels I'm "obsessed", but what I really am is excited. I DO feel like I need permission to have this relationship, as my husband and I did not get...

I went farther with my friend's man than he wanted. I thought he said that it was ok to do with them what it was ok for him to do with her, but I was mistaken. Thanks. It's me, mostly. He said he was part of opening this can of worms.

I know what I want. But I don't know if what I want is fair. I know what my husband says he wants right now, which is different than what he said before. My earlier post was posted out of frustration, not out of truth. This whole thing WAS wonderful, wonderful. And somehow I messed it up and...

Actually, that whole last post was defeatist. I want my marriage. And a fun friendship wouldn't hurt, either. :)

He said he knew from the get-go that this would be trouble. And that he wouldn't know what it was until it happened. So then it happened, and, yeah. More time. Maybe a lifetime. Thanks, buddy.

We have talked about it so much that there's nothing left to say. He knows that, as do I. He wants me to stop doing anything with her, though. I don't even know what I want anymore. :( Thanks for the words of wisdom.

So, my husband and I have been together for 12 years. We have always fantasized about having an open relationship, so much that we even have been actively searching for another couple to experiment with. As luck would have it, a friend (female) of mine expressed interest. Her husband is cool...