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What's the definition of emotional affair? My coworker said something about a friend of hers discovering her husband having an emotional affair around the same time as my GF and I were struggling with some pretty heavy-duty discussions over my non-sexual involvement with someone else. I...

Hi, greenbasil, I'm new here, too! My only suggestion is to make sure you spend some time with just her, even if it's just a meal or so. If you really want a triad relationship, I can't imagine it would work if the only thing you have in common is him. I also really like the suggestion of...

I would never extract a promise from her to try it. That seems like a road headed straight into disaster to me. Whenever the subject comes up, we end up at the same place: she feels like she's holding me back, and is conflicted over that, and afraid it will lead to resentment if we don't try...

This is the only thing I feel stifled about in our relationship, though I have agreed to be mono for a year. I'm afraid that when the year is up, if I bring up the subject again, I'll get the same, "Am I not enough for you?" responses and the fights and the guilt will start all over again. I...

Hi, I just spent several hours reading posts here, you all seem like a very helpful and balanced bunch! I'm a bisexual girl who's likely polyamorous. I say "likely" because I've yet to practice it, though I will if the chance comes. The thing is, my GF of a year isn't. I know I'm capable of...