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You're right, we don't really talk about our feelings. Neither one of grew up in environment where it was safe to do so. My mother wouldn't tolerate any dissenting opinions from my sisters and I and his mother would use anything he told her as ammunition to hurt him with. So, we carried that...

So, I told him when he got up that I don't want a monogamous relationship anymore. He doesn't believe me. He said that he is worried this is just step 1 of me walking out the door or that I say this now but will change my mind later. I said "If I didn't want to be with you anymore, I would...

Hi. I posted here once 3 years ago about my boyfriend turned husband wanting to open our relationship and wondering why I wasn't enough. From then to now, things have changed in my head. I went from being staunchly against it, to wondering what it would be like, to feeling like something is...

I did say in my second post about my best friend, but I haven't seen her in like three years. We just kind of drifted apart. So, he really is my only friend. His best friend likes me, and considers me a friend, but I barely know her or her family. It feels kind of odd to be called a friend...

@ YGirl, I wasn't offended. @ StarGazer - To be completely honest with you, I have Asperger's. I have many acquaintances, but not anybody I could consider a friend, besides him. @ Danny - I don't know what I think. I think I'm more confused now.

Is that directed at me?

Whoa, what? :confused: How am I hurting many? There's not been anybody else in 7 years that was remotely interested in me. And the two guys I mentioned in my OP would never have been okay with sharing. Not in a million years.

See, I could respect the whole "people have different needs that are met by different people" thing. I understand that. I have a "need" to watch chick flicks, which I do with my best friend. He hates them. But when I asked my bf if it was because he had needs I wasn't fulfilling for whatever...

I'm not poly, but for some reason, I keep finding guys that are. My last boyfriend was, and the guy I'm with now is. I know polyamory is more than just legal cheating. (I actually heard it called that once.) I was in a relationship about 8 years ago with a guy I was very much in love with, and...