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No-one ever follows up on these 'OMG I'm having problems!' threads :) The shortest version is - problems ironed out, man and I are happier and stronger than ever, and joyfully poly. The rather longer version is: turned out that C actually was looking for a pretty serious relationship; awesome...

I think it's really really clear - to me at least - that all of my insecurities have nothing at all to do with C. At a really fundamental level, my jealousy is not 'what if she's better at x/prettier/smarter/funnier than me?' but 'what if he prefers her for x?' - a subtle difference but an...

Also, just to follow that up - my greatest fear is that all my worries over all this are what will finally drive my partner away. We had another talk last night, which ended with him asking if we could please not talk about all this for at least a week, because it feels like we're just going...

Sorry, yet another poster having trouble with the early stages of poly. My partner and I have been together for about 8 years, and we've been involved in swinging for a few years now, which has been lovely, and we've made some good friends through it. I've always said to him that I really enjoy...