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What about the kids? How do I explain this lifestyle to them? Mine are all old enough to question additional "interests," if you will. I don't want to cause them any confusion or pain.

It definitely started as an affair. There have been others, and they have been married, as well. She is single. I don't think he anticipated the degree of emotion he experienced this time. At this point, I would welcome meeting with her, but I don't think she would be as open to it. He says he...

I am trying to figure out how to explain to him that I am open to her being a part of our lives, but I think he likes the separate lives. I also worry about our kids (range in age from 11 to 21). I am in essence lying to them everytime he goes out of town for "work". And his family as well...

I have been quietly reading along, trying to see where my situation fits. My husband just got back from spending a week and a half with his other. It is not open or honest, because he cannot call me when they are together. In fact, I believe that she is hoping that he will leave me for her. I...

Thanks for the welcome. I have asked myself the same question. I'm not sure where I stand yet. This has all come to light rather recently and I am currently searching for answers. I know that I love my husband and can't imagine life without him.

I'm in a similar situation. My husband met a woman last summer and started a relationship with her. I didn't think our marriage would get through the summer, but with some work, it did. The problem is that the relationship with her, that I thought was over, is not. He is in love with her, and...

Hi from VB. I'm a 41 year old female and I've been married to my husband for 21 years. He has had a few affairs, but I recently found out it goes deeper than that. He has asked me if I can accept that our relationship is going to be open on his side. I need guidance and was unsure where to...