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    I see that you are also an unmarried, female college student interested in polyamory. Would love...

    I see that you are also an unmarried, female college student interested in polyamory. Would love to chat, I have very few people close to me who understand the problems that I'm going through (and why!), especially any friends who are close to my peer group. Holler back if you're interested.
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    Poly couple in texas lonely--are we the only ones???

    Glad to see you guys here! I haven't posted in awhile but I guess I am one of those "unicorns" mentioned... I had no idea I was, though, until I was poking around a dating site basically looking to have my first experience with a woman and fate was kind to me, in the form of a message from a...
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    Sex in a triad... Is every party always present?

    Don't worry. I didn't think you were implying he didn't care about me. I had mentioned to him that I was under the assumption that most guys would not mind seeing two girls kissing and then invite him over for sex. He then claimed that most guys would only think that in the context of a...
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    Sex in a triad... Is every party always present?

    He's 27. He and our gf have been together for 6 years. And he did say he felt like he was being attacked when both she and I were agreeing on some things when we were having a discussion about his more self-centered tendencies. But I think that as time goes on, he may get used to the fact that...
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    Sex in a triad... Is every party always present?

    We got into a fight because he brought up yet another instance in which he feels like he needs MORE attention. The fact that it was closely related to the sex act itself, which he always insists he needs more attention during, really set us off. He is constantly saying during sex, "Can someone...
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    Sex in a triad... Is every party always present?

    I would like some input on whether or not anyone had run into the same problem, how others in a triad arrange their sex lives, etc. Obviously, I can do whatever I want, but I was not raised to have to deal with the dynamics of both a boyfriend and a girlfriend, so input from others who have...
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    Sex in a triad... Is every party always present?

    I am involved in a three-way relationship with a couple that has been together for six years. All of us have been dating for four months. Last night we had a perfectly awful argument that I may vent about on here in the future. But the catalyst for said argument was that my boyfriend...
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    HELP PLEASE!!!

    You say that you are not very vocal, but you voice specifically what you need? Maybe you are not being assertive enough. Easier said than done, I know, but worth it. Sharing all this with your husband will hopefully get him to support you through your time of emotional vulnerability as well, if...
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    Hey there!

    Thank you, Jodi! Hope we can help and support each other in our relationships. You say you WERE dating a couple, are you not with them anymore?
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    HELP PLEASE!!!

    As the girlfriend of a couple that has been dating now 6 years, I feel that my experience may help you gain some insight on how your girlfriend may feel. As someone who has been dating them for about 4 months, I know I am not an equal part in their lives in many respects as they are to each...
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    Hello hello!

    Hey there! Nice to meet a fellow newcomer. And around my age, too! Hope to hear from you more in the future.
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    Hey there!

    Hi! I'm an 18-year old female from California. About 4 months ago I began seeing a male/female couple I met online through a dating website. We met up for casual friendship and a physical relationship, but really ended up falling for each other. So I've stumbled happily into a triangle. It has...
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