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    Coming out

    You are, of course, all wonderful and all right. I'm beginning to see this as a whole multi-layered issue. The first part I am looking at is how to deal with the negativity directed towards coming out, in particular, losing one's blood family, and losing friends that were supposed to be with...
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    Coming out

    Coming out and rejection Hi All, I have been struggling for months and finally decided to post here about my coming out to my family. First, let me state that I am poly by my own choice. I have two wonderful male partners, one of 9 years ( P) and another of just over a year (Y). Last...
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    Edmonton Male Saying hello!

    there is a large group of people in the edmonton area that are poly :) if you are in edmonton alberta the group is https://www.facebook.com/groups/9820686495/ happy hunting
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    sexless marriage

    firstly i want to send you hugs and good wishes. it seems to me that this does happen. my fiance and i recently went through a spell where he and i were not active in that area. like all things there were some things we had to work through. that being said i like the idea of creating a intimate...
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    Always a struggle with emotionally distant bf

    First, huge hugs to you. It must be so tough in your life right now. I send all my best wishes and energies to support you. I know the ending of a relationship is a tough thing. It is harder to keep a relationship working through communication. I personally think that it is even harder with a...
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    looking for advice...

    replyness hi, firstly i would say my best wishes to both of you so the (nre) is coming closer and it is making you anxious. it would make me anxious as well. have you talked to your boyfriend about this? to me communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. to me it...
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    Is a Stinky Dwarf!

    replyness hi you :) , he is a great man. tanya
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    anger at self, need advice

    As to Patrick's erectile problems, he has gone to the doctor. He was tested for thyroid and he doesn't have the numbers to be diagnosed. In the last year, he gained 100 pounds. They have run tests and he is healthy in all the emergency kinds of things. As to the intimacy, no, it doesn't stem...
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    anger at self, need advice

    Thank you so much for the responses. Patrick's sexual problems started happening 3 years ago. They coincide with his depression/weight gain. Sex prior to that was good. It isn't something that came up when Dylan, my soulmate, came back into my life. Redpepper, thank you for pointing out that...
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    anger at self, need advice

    Okay, well, here goes. I am really lucky. I have two wonderful men in my life. The problem I have is that I have grown to hate intimate contact with Patrick, the man I love, that I was engaged to. (We no longer engaged, because he wants my other partner to be on equal footing.) Kissing him...
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    help with my own preconditioned notions

    My life in the last two months has been crazy. much joy has been added, but much stress has also been added. a bit of background history, to make things a bit clear: eleven years ago i was in a relationship and engaged to a wonderful man, Bo. At that time i was 17 and he was 19. we were young...
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    hello :)

    hi i am new......as is everyone in this section.(lol) anyway my name is tanya, i am currently in a v relationship. It is new but not new and really confusing. I am 29, 30 in january and happy with alot of things in my life. i have five cats (manic,serenity,ella,piglet, and ginger) and one dog...
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