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Thanks, I was wondering the same thing, lol? Personally I prefer the: PEBKAC reference :rolleyes: A little off topic banter sometimes breaks the monotony and tension anyway. I realize my initial post caused a bit of a stir but I'm not sorry I posted it. There were those few enlightening...

How true :p! This is actually one of the top benefits from my perspective. As they say "Many hands make light work". We have a small farm and as much as I hate to admit it, I'm not getting any younger, lol :eek:. There is so much to do here and so much more we would love to do with the place to...

..and for a variety of reasons. One being as reece2014 says: http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=69817 [I hope it's okay to quote from other threads?] This is in the top 3 of my list of benefits ;)! I totally agree with you! Respect is the primary factory in ANY relationship!! It...

Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, things can get messy in pretty much any relationship. But it seems the more people in the mix the more to get messy :(. Apparently it is possible though if we're patient, devoted, and a little bit lucky. Just check out this thread by: NortheastPoly...

I would totally watch this!!! My daughter actually follows the cast of "Firefly" [absolutely the best TV series ever, IMO] on Twitter. They are a riot :D!! I'll bet that would have been a pretty good party as well ;)!! ......Lucky you!!!!

....exactly!

Yes, I would also love to hear the Kevin Sorbo story! I am most familiar with him as Capt. Dylan Hunt, from "Andromeda". One of my all time favorite TV series. Loved that show!! Ooops........and welcome to the forum by the way. Very nice to meet you! Your intro was a fantastic read :D!!

Nope. I just said what my feelings were and how I would feel. If hubby found a woman and wanted to be with her and she was not into me, that would be fine with me. Actually I have been in that situation before and it posed absolutely no problems. It was some good times! We all got along great...

I don't have a problem with either of those situations. At least not in the beginning. As I mentioned earlier; looking at the long term, and this is just me personally, I wouldn't feel right if I had a 'girlfriend' living with us and hubby was totally left out of the situation. In my perfect...

@london: I see that as a viable option. Definitely food for thought. Actually, I kind of like that scenario. It would be like a vacation of sorts and everyone needs a vacation every now and then. I know I would love one, lol ;). I guess my main concern is that as long as everyone is 'cool' with...

No worries. We're all here to learn and try and help eachother, right? I get that and my feelings aren't so fragile that I can't accept some constructive criticism. If I already had all the answers, I wouldn't be here asking questions. Thank you also for posting the "AnnabelMore" story. I found...

Thank you sweetersong. That was the point I was trying to make that seemed to keep getting passed over. Not that these women were married, but that their husbands would not know or be accepting of their wives 'being' with anyone other than them. Hell one of the husbands [with jealousy issues]...

Hi Northeastpoly! Welcome to the forum!! Sounds like congratulations are in order :D. I barely know you and yet I am so happy for you!! You have accomplished what so many of us are still striving for. I wish you many years of happiness in your relationship. You give hope to those of us still...

Hi reece, and welcome to the forum. I'm fairly new here as well. There's plenty here to see and learn. Hope to see ya 'round the place. Have fun :D!

The only reason I mentioned these particular married women, is that their husbands would NOT be okay with it. It would be in secret and I/we are not okay with that. We do know these women very well, they are good friends and I would like to keep it that way. I would never do anything to hurt...

I'm not sure I completely understand? Of course if a woman was going to join inour life she would be attracted to both of us and love both of us, just as she would be loved by both of us. If I were in her situation I would need to be attracted to and care for all involved. As for her "living...

I have tried to look at it from their prespective [at least I think I have]. I understand that the whole notion is kind of scary. You know the old "fear of the unknown". But these women [the single ones] I'm referring to are often flirty and let us know that they are 'attracted' to us but it's...

In our unending search for that special lady with whom we would like to share our lives, hubby and I have noticed a pattern. It disturbs and confuses me. Over the years we have gotten to know many women. Only a couple of them have resulted in any kind of 'physical' relationship. Sadly, nothing...

I find it all very confusing myself. I guess that's why I don't like labels per se. I can't even figure out what 'category' to place myself in half the time, lol. Since I have started parusing the forums about various lifestyles I have discovered so many new terms for this that and the other...

Hi Jens1968 from a fellow newbie! You are aboslutely right it can be very exciting and scary at the same time. Maybe the 'scary' is part of what makes it exciting, lol. There seems to be plenty of nice people here to support and answer any questions you may have. Good luck and hope to see you...