Search results

Just an update, he started doing things he knew made me uncomfortable today as a way to lash out at me. I tried not to let it phase me. He then started whining on at least two social networks that I'm a member of, accused me of "uncirciling him on G+" (I hadn't) and unfollowed me on Twitter...

He says his counselor told him he definitely doesn't have bpd but thinks he just needs to practice emotional control when he gets outside his comfort level. He then kept blaming me and blaming me and looking at the logs he was clearly trying to argue with me and when I shut him down, he tried...

He's going to find out about the pregnancy if it makes the 12 week mark somehow, even if I were to not tell him we have far too many mutual friends for it not to be found out. As for the stuff, he later went back and said it sounded "cold" to tell me to pick up everything. It's a blanket, a...

I really should. I am angry with him for blaming me because he doesn't think the behavior he is trying to fix should count. Um, it does. I didn't even bring up the "why" other than concern for his health because ultimately that is my concern and just saying something like "you were a complete...

Well, I did it. I felt like an ass for not doing it in person. I did it in real time over the internet at the advice of a friend who knew I was afraid of him - she's the only person besides, well, P and you guys who picked up on that. He was pretty much a jerk, spent time trying to argue me out...

Thank you all for your advice. To answer a few things: The pregnancy was not unplanned, we just didn't think we'd manage it on the first try. I have issues with cysts as well as endometriosis and the odds are only about 20% that out would happen the first time for anyone. Regarding S and the...

I do think at the least, a break would be good which is what I've been doing. I haven't seen him since the trip and we've only spoken a few times. How can he love anyone else if he can't love himself? He does attention seeking behavior and requested I "call him out on it" but I declined because...

Hello. I am new to the boards but not new to polyamory. I've been in my primary relationship for almost ten years. I've only been in my secondary relationship for a few months. Prior to that, I had an almost exclusive relationship for four years with my first secondary that ended, but we are...