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    Husband vs Wife and her Dom.. a matter of respect.

    This relationship sounds like it's teetering on the edge of a cliff. 1. Why isn't your wife willing to listen to you at all? When you talk do you go to the arguing place like right away or do you sit down and tell her what you need/want? 2. Something that's missing that would be a big issue for...
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    "Tell me something unique about yourself"

    Sorry I didn't get the message until just now. I'll chat with you on OKCupid.
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    Poly-friendly songs & books

    Unfortunately the poly aspect in this series I love didn't continue nearly as long as I would have liked, but there is something touching about the V with Dena-Richard-Kahlan at the beginning of the Sword of Truth series by Terry Goodkind. There was a scene that was particularly moving and...
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    "Tell me something unique about yourself"

    Not from Manitoba-- sorry. I'm not sure how unique I am. The Nerd? Dork? Geek? Quiz on OkCupid called me an Outcast Genius. I'm a Filipino-Norwegian polyglot who writes massive amounts of poetry (we wade through paper seas in my house). I also have lots of moles/freckles in weird places.
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    Gaming and Gamers

    I started out playing games on Sega Genesis and PC. The first two games I ever became obsessed with were 3D Pinball Space Cadet and Sonic the Hedgehog. My favorite game of all time is still Guardian Heroes from Sega Saturn. I loved the multiple endings and variations in the game- plus having...
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    My life right now.

    Three days ago my ex, my child, and I were in a car accident. My daughter is okay and so is my ex. I had some injuries because the impact was on my side. The car was totaled. I had not intended to leave the house that day, but I went because my mother said she was going to see my sister. Now...
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    A request: state your gender and sexual preference/orientation

    Female, pansexual, mono, in the middle of a nasty divorce, proud mother of a baby girl.:D Rem- congratulations on your baby! That's awesome!
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    My life right now.

    I've been reading some of the blogs on here for a long time (particularly AnnabelMore's "Story of a Secondary), and I decided it might be therapeutic to discuss what I'm feeling on here. Some background on me before I get to present day~ I didn't really have a label for what I defined myself as...
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    Movies: That would have been better with a poly ending.

    I'm so glad someone mentioned "Scott Pilgrim vs. The World." I completely thought that at the time. I mean why force a choice? The first movie that came to mind for me however was "Imagine Me and You." Don't get me wrong... Piper Perabo is hot and when she has that realization that she's a...
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    Hello

    If you're not into the idea of having a threesome- tell him so. He will just need to put on his big boy pants and get over it. Honestly, it sort of feels like he's telling you he's been fucking around and expecting to get rewarded for it. You may learn to accept and deal with the issues in...
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    2 Issues

    It sounds as though you are resentful of feeling like the secondary in the relationship. Are you the secondary or are you co-primaries? That may be something to work through in time. Cindie was right btw. You and the other gf should be spending some time together and communicating with each...
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    The third...

    I completely understand where you're coming from. I'm mono, but I've been in a relationship with someone before who was poly. One key to allowing yourself to feel comfortable with "sharing" is to realize that a person isn't property, and honestly, your partner is far ahead of many people who...
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    Sort of new to the boards~

    Well I picked up the phone finally and told her that we won't be speaking anymore. I'm going to have to stay strong and stand by that. It hurts me, but what was said here struck a chord with me. If she was really concerned for me, she wouldn't keep intentionally targeting the people I love...
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    Sort of new to the boards~

    Sorry. I probably should have clarified something. When I said she'd slept with my partners in the past- I meant my girlfriends. I haven't had very many relationships with males and she's never been interested in them before (to my knowledge). Regardless, it is the equivalent of "banging my...
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    Sort of new to the boards~

    I thought as much. I've tried being accepting, resigned, disappointed- a bevy of emotions in the short time since I found out. Reading the responses, I feel as though the anger that is working its way into my system is justified, and boy I have never ever been so mad. :mad: I'm going to have...
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    Sort of new to the boards~

    Thank you for the responses. I did ask why this occured at the time, but I got different answers from both of them. She claims that she has been attracted to him for some time and that their relationship grew while I was having a difficult pregnancy. He says (like Annabel said) that it...
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    Sort of new to the boards~

    I'm Ami. I'm kind of shy and a very private person, so if I'm long-winded at any time I apologize for that. I have a tendency to dance around the point frequently. I know a lot of people who post on this forum are poly. I think that's cool. I had one long-term relationship with someone who...
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