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    Jealousy and cheating

    A few years ago (before my wife and I discovered poly) my wife and I had a falling out. She moved out and started sleeping with another man, all the while telling me that she was not doing anything with anyone else and that I had nothing to worry about. I was reassured that there was nobody else...
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    Mono trying to overcome jealousy

    There are tons of resources available to help with jealousy. I personally like the info on morethantwo.com. It has helped me immensely.
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    Im rubbish at polyamory, HELP!

    This. I may be new to poly, but I've seen plenty of mono relationships break apart because of too much time together. I've also seen mono relationships that broke up because one partner got bored and saw the other person as taking up too much of their time. This is not at all unique to poly and...
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    First Date.

    It is a very happy vent. There are few people that are in the know as to my wife and I opening up our relationship a little, and I needed to let it out. I can't wait till this weekend!
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    First Date.

    I had my first date with anyone other than my wife in about a decade the other night and it was absolutely wonderful. I just need to vent. We went out to dinner and talked. We talked about ourselves, we talked about friends and family, we even talked about my wife (who was very excited for me)...
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    So lost.

    I guess some of my frustration comes from the fact that I found someone, and can no longer pursue them due to spousal interference on their side. I really don't want to interfere with her relationship partially because of that. I know it's not a race. I just feel ready to find someone, and now...
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    So lost.

    Thanks Opal, We are trying to join a poly meet up, but so far no luck. I'm already trying the online dating scene, and even that's tough. I'm terrible at small talk. As far as the new guy goes, I think it's a combo. I can't pin down some of what bugs me about him, but I do have some specific...
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    So lost.

    My wife and I have been married for 7 years, been together 8. Before that, I hadn't dated much at all, ever. I've been in a few different short-term relationships, and one year-long relationship that had almost no courting before I moved in with her. What I'm getting at is this: I have no idea...
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    New Here and to Poly!

    I'm her husband, everything she says is true. It's really funny because I'm more into romance and sappy stuff than she is, so we've ended up looking for completely different things. It's a bizarre realization that there are things that someone else might be able to provide each of us better than...
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