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    A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")

    First I had a go at two of your blog posts. Both brought me insights. "More people means more complexity. More moving parts to break down or begin to wear against each other." - On Trust (and Really Bad Automotive Analogies) My first reaction was Yes, really bad analogy! In my life, the added...
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    Can our relationship continue to grow in positive ways?

    I was telling PaperGrace the other night that I would be totally pleased if the next year was like the last year. (I've been saying that for years.) It's not that I don't love change. I do. Change comes anyway. Each year brings new shifts and they're often not without some turmoil. PaperGrace...
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    How do I continue on as a secondary without a primary?

    It's from your signature line and I've found it to be true. It's also true for me that my relationships are the essential places for me to express happiness! And that my partners can do things (or fail to do things) that will leave me unhappy. It's a paradox, and I'm okay with that.
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    How do I continue on as a secondary without a primary?

    There are times where we see each other twice a week. This past week we spent the day together after spending the usual night and then spent the afternoon and night together at the end of the week. I'm willing to be wrong but I don't think this is about scheduling two nights rather than one...
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    How do I continue on as a secondary without a primary?

    Hello! I'm PaperGrace's SO. :) I read everyone's reply and there were quite a few nuggets of wisdom. Thank you all. If my reply is less than coherent, I blame my 8 month old son who is doing his darndest to get all of my attention while I type. If you think having four life partners is a...
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