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I'm monogamous but have a poly partner. I think you will have to make a decision. M may be able to overcome the hurt you have caused her and learn to accept your poly ways, however, I would say the likelihood of her accepting you dating P again is quite low. I have been cheated on before, and...

Known each other 8 months. Been dating just over 6.

She's supportive of us moving forward because she thinks I would make him happy. I do agree it would in the long run alter their relationship. It feels very foreign to me to have to consider that. I assume you are talking critical condition kinda thing not a broken arm. I would not bar her...

Thank you for this advice. I will consider it. I will continue with therapy regardless of what happens with him.

She knows, and is seemly supportive of that plan. (I haven't spoken to her directly yet). She seems to sleep over more to meet his needs of cuddling more than her own. She had multiple other partners as weel. 1) He's been poly his entire life. With regards to sharing the messages, he states...

I did not explain myself properly. He has another 8 years of military service before he can retire with a full pension (50% of his payrate). I am currently in school and plan to qualify as a lawyer in about 4 years. He would like to retire in 8-10 years and be a stay at home dad. I would be done...

Thank you so much for the advice. To answer your questions: By monogamous, I do mean my preference would be strict monogamy. I've never tried anything else though. Dating him was not intentional on either side. It started off as a sex thing but both of us realized we wanted more. I don't...

Pardon my ignorance but what is "bad hinge" land?

Hello everyone, I am in search of advice. I am dating a man who is polyamorous. I am very monogamous. It is still a new relationship, but I am trying to decide whether it has a chance of working before I risk his heart (and mine) too much. He has a secondary partner (forgive me if I mess up...

Hello everyone, I am in search of advice. I am dating a man who is polyamorous. I am very monogamous. It is still a new relationship, but I am trying to decide whether it has a chance of working before I risk his heart (and mine) too much. He has a secondary partner (forgive me if I mess up...