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I understand what you mean. In fact, it was my last therapist who said the same, and encouraged me to figure out who I was, what I wanted in life, etc. She said she was surprised that hubby and I had lasted so long because the expecatations of 'being one' was unrealistic. But I can see I still...

Hi Galagirl. Thank you so much for this response! I looked up the two links on Poly hell and on Core beliefs to get a better understanding of what those were references to. The first was an incredibly accurate description of what we/I struggled with over the past few years. I can't express how...

Thanks TXretired. I look forward to exploring this site more. I can see there are a lot of resources and dialogues which can be enlightening :)

Those are really good questions!! I will definitely reflect on that and tell the others too. I think this is sort of why it causes conflict inside me because I know what I want, how I want to react, which direction I want to work towards if possible..yet the questions the nag me pull me another...

Thanks Kevin!! I'm excited to be here :)

Hi Evie. Thank you for replying so quickly! That must have been so hard for you. I'm sorry that you went through that. Indeed one of the biggest fears that my husbands partner (is there a term for my relationship to her?) has had since we all met was that I would be hurt or jealous and would...

Hello everyone. I’m 41 years old and have been in a marriage with my husband for 20 years. We’ve had some pretty hard rough patches over the last few years and have been to counselling. At the same time, I’ve watched him fall deeply in love with a young, exciting, beautiful and talented woman...