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    Contextual Glossary, focus on closed polyamory

    Thanks Kevin. You’ve always been so kind and supportive. I have met a couple people who are interested in the hinge situation and that is another possibility. If I find two guys who wanna date me as a hinge I’m open. I fear my original post might’ve came off as if I was uncompromising. As if the...
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    Contextual Glossary, focus on closed polyamory

    Thank you so much for your post. I really appreciate your support and yeah it does seem like polyamorous relationships are a DIY and as I continue to say love is in a one size fits all. I just felt incredibly selfish even thinking about it but it was a romanticize ideal. Of course that doesn’t...
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    Contextual Glossary, focus on closed polyamory

    Thank you so much for sharing that and responding to my post. It was just a beautiful fantasy that when it comes to love that’s why we always have the big idealistic romanticized fantasy about what we want when it comes to partnership. As everybody in a polyamorous community should know love...
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    Contextual Glossary, focus on closed polyamory

    Well considering how much I lack in self esteem & am not a drop dead gorgeous model or mentally stable lol looking for the ideal would come very unfair. The goal is to meet guys & once I feel comfortable enough to share my dream or ideal. I’m a good communicator so discussing my needs, wants &...
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    Contextual Glossary, focus on closed polyamory

    Th Thank you. It is basically like a tribe kind of thing I’m looking for not like a common because I’m worried that when I say tribe and worry it comes off sounding like I might be joining a cult which people are more than welcome to join a colt as long as it doesn’t earn badly I’m back in...
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    Contextual Glossary, focus on closed polyamory

    Over the years my ideal relationship has been an MFM or MMF with bisexual guys who are in a relationship with each other too. I’ve been told that it’s not really realistic and I’ve kind of felt hopeless as I had no idea of where to go to search for such a thing. I met two guys both online and...
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    Extremely exposing my personal pain but needing to know. (TRIGGER WARNING)

    Hi Crazy, Thank you so much for your kind words & support. I’m really grateful that I didn’t need to give up on polyamorous relationships.
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    Extremely exposing my personal pain but needing to know. (TRIGGER WARNING)

    I thank you so much for your kind words and answering my post. It’s good to know that his reaction to not wanting to be intimate with me it’s not a be all. I finally found the kind of relationships that I wanna have are polyamorous one and I am so ready to be involved in it. I’m fully embraced &...
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    Extremely exposing my personal pain but needing to know. (TRIGGER WARNING)

    I’m a bit scared to post office because I feel such a shame and I don’t want to be ridiculed. I’m talking to the sky that I really like and I really want to be intimate with but he brought up some thing that I never even thought about. He’s a First polyamorous individual that I’ve really talk to...
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    Here I am again

    T Thank you for always being so supportive & helpful about this.
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    Here I am again

    I totally understand that I sound very impatient and you are absolutely right finding someone takes longer than 2 months. I guess my concern was just hoping to better my chances on other sites. I agree though most our boring or just wanting hookups. But also I don’t seem to find bisexual guys so...
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    Here I am again

    I’ve looked into them but I guess I’m not sure which is best. Perhaps I should try all of them lol Thank you for that support on saying lots would like that it gives me courage. I’ll try posting here too thank you.
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    Here I am again

    So I posted back on December 7 saying that I was looking for dating sites as I started to explore getting into relationships that are polyamorous. I joined OkCupid and that hasn’t really turned out so well because still single but it’s not providing me what I’m looking for. So does anyone have...
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    This is me

    Thank you. I can honestly say that your words ring true with me. “Everyone has advice, everyone thinks they’re right, but nobody has the answers” As somebody who is well established in who I am, I would agree that throughout life everybody/society has advice on how to be but the only person who...
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    Crazy Love

    As always thank you for the support. I’m not opposed to more but that’s a discussion once I’m established & knows what works.
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    Crazy Love

    I’ve always been an emotional woman and over the course of my life my emotions have gotten stronger. I feel deeply and I’m finally at a point in my life where I don’t feel guilty for that. Everyone has their own little struggles growing up and for me one of the only ways to cope was the tap in...
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    Advice on where to start when looking to date

    Thank you so much Kevin! I’m glad there is hope. I’ve started to feel like I was doomed lol
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    This is me

    Lol thank you.
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