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His behavior is what we call topping from the bottom. He is being manipulative which is not a desirible "sub trait" it is even more so not a good poly trait. I would put my foot down and state it as clearly as i can. NO I am not mono..you choose to be. NO I am not into BDSM...you are...your...

I know the difference between open and cheating. When you lie, sneak, hide, and flat-out do whatever you want with whoever, and whenever you want, while married, even "open," with no regard to your relationship, it is cheating. When you replace one person for another, that is a not poly, that is...

cuckolding is about control and finding sexual arousal in being humilated. Many couples have taken on a LTR "bull" which would be a V of sorts. However, most women don't wanta LTR with their Bulls, because part of the sexual excitement is the non emotional but pure sexual interactions...

When i meet my husband I told him as his friend I was poly. I loaned him books, read him MANY of my postings on it and he knew before marriage i partispated in Poly support groups/dinners. He also knew i don't do one night stands , hooks ups, or casual sex well at all. All during our dating...

I think they are better suited for swinging then polyamory, personally. Polyamory is about love, first and foremost. While we want to enjoy sex with those we come to fall in love with, it is not a requirement. If she seeks men only based off her sexual pleasure and his body parts, she is...

My ideal would be flexible. I can say a V with two men, but in reality I am open to both male partners having "loves" or at a least lover. More then two men in my life as romantic partners might be a little rough for me, as it would spread my time too thin, I would think. I would prefer if my...

his1911, I can only imagine. *waves hello back* :) BrigidsDaughter, lol I know myself well enough to know if I'm sexually attracted to a man, VENIS is not going to work for me. lol Now, I can be platonic friends with a man I'm sexually attracted to, but that means no hanky-panky. I'm a...

I don't have an issue dating a pre-involved male, but I have a big rule, which is: soon after meeting, BEFORE sex, I must meet her and see if I can least like her, and her me, as human beings. I need to be able to communicate with both if issues arise, even if I am only dating him. Also, it...

Being a single female who self-identifies as poly, I find it hard to find men who understands the concept of polyamory. Most assume I would expect them to be bisexual, or sexual with anyone and everyone. Or they assume they can't find a partner that is female. I have had my share of bad...