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  1. Red5DT

    2 Couples, 4 People, 1 Problem.

    Great reply! Thanks so much!!!
  2. Red5DT

    2 Couples, 4 People, 1 Problem.

    Yes! She is currently torn. She likes both of them and would like to date them but feels uncomfortable/bad that I will be left out. I myself am unsure how I should feel and react. I know compersion would be the answer, but I feel so left out.
  3. Red5DT

    2 Couples, 4 People, 1 Problem.

    Ok, so we finally started hanging out with our couple friend and it went to the beds. But now the couple, both wife and husband, want to date my wife but not me. They're ok if I hang around as a FWB, but they're really romantically interested in my wife. Is this a safe situation? Should I...
  4. Red5DT

    Moving at what speed?

    I have Polywise coming in Saturday and we're booked some couple's counselling you help us deal with the emotions and other couple's dynamic as we move forward. Thanks for all the advice folks. This community is pretty alright!
  5. Red5DT

    Moving at what speed?

    We will be dating individually, and doing some couple stuff as well. She's asking that both of us slow down to her speed, which i totally get. I just wish I could move at a brisker pace.
  6. Red5DT

    Moving at what speed?

    I would want to start talking to potential matches, to build relationships. She is a little more gun-shy and wants to wait longer before we initiate contact. I want to support her, but I also want to move at my own individual pace. That's probably more selfish than it needs to be. But I want to...
  7. Red5DT

    Moving at what speed?

    My wife and I have been together since high school, 25 years. Throughout our relationship we've brought up sleeping with other people, but it never materialized. Well, we finally have mustered up the courage to pursue CNM, but it seems we're moving at different speeds. Any advice on how to...
  8. Red5DT

    Why and how did you get into poly?

    This is a darn fine answer.
  9. Red5DT

    Brand spanking new.

    Hi all. My name is Den and I'm brand new to the lifestyle, though I think it's always been inside me. .y wife and I are undertaking the process to open up to consensual non monogamy. Slow and steady, with help from a therapist. Just wanted to say hi!
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