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    So here I am (going from swinging to polyamory)

    I think you should tell Lucy that you would love to continue the relationship with her, but you are still committed to your wife also. Let her know that the relationship with her can continue and flourish, but ONLY if she agrees to meet with Zoe. If it continues as it is, all of you will be...
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    mono spouse feelings...

    Well I'm new to this myself but I will add my feelings. I am also a mono spouse with my wife being the one who is dating. I have found that by talking with really open honest dialogue my fears have diminished. I really love my wife and she feels the same about me. I want her to be happy and...
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    New, excited, and nervous

    It is only for her. I am not looking and do not have another lover.
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    New, excited, and nervous

    Thanks for the advice. I agree with you on this. I don't think he is lying to his wife though, but it's a good question for her to ask. I know she does not want to break up a marriage.
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    New, excited, and nervous

    Yes, I'm trying to be supportive and not controlling. I also have no one in the wings. This is all about her and her happiness. I want her to be content and happy and not resent me for stifling her. So far, it's very exciting. :)
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    New, excited, and nervous

    Thank you. I completely forgave her for her past mistake. I feel somewhat a part of it due to the marriage struggles we had at the time and lack of communication. I know she will be happy not being or feeling confined, and free to explore her heart. I truly think this will strengthen our bond...
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    Possibly poly?

    I'm new to this myself, but I'd suggest taking one day at a time. Since you are both open and are communicating, you're likely more secure, which will be apparent to others, and will invite others into your circle. Best of luck.
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    Text Message: "I'm Poly..." WTF?!?!?!

    Depending on the people, saying it through a text message is better than not saying it at all. I contemplated on how to approach it with my wife, and texting or email did come to mind. I ultimately decided to do it via phone, since we were not together and I knew there would be many questions...
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    New, excited, and nervous

    Hello all, I've been lurking here for awhile and just decided to join and share my story. A little background info: my wife and I have been married for 26 years, but live in separate states due to her work. She is sharing an apartment with her sister and a friend, both of whom are monoamorous...
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