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Okay, I have maybe 15 minutes. I've almost always found myself being interested in, or loving, more than one person at a time, but I never knew the term polyamory. I just assumed there was something wrong with me, or that I was incapable of commitment, or even of "real" love, due to these...

So sorry hun. When P trampled my heart it was weird to still have this amazing relationship with N. Of course, I got to woman hate (despite being a woman myself) because N is a man. I hope you and Violet can carry eachother through. *hug*

My short answer is yes, I felt EXACTLY that way about my relationship with P. I have always loved more than one person, but never went the poly route until her. I was more into serial monogamy or cheating. (I'm not proud of that.) I'll give you a better answer later when there is not a baby...

LMAO. Let us know if you're passing our way again. I warn you though-I squirt!

Thank you everyone! I've been so busy with finding the new "normal" (which I'm still far from finding) that I've missed alot of posts. Including this one. I've had TWO babies, just not at the same time. My older one is 5. Illusion- Remember how big I was? Now the belly is deflating and I just...

LMAO Ceoli. Thanks everyone-back to the original thread now. Nothing to see here.

I go away for a few days and geesh. HI new people!

Just did on Thursday. I'm tired and worn and in pain...but Fuck it...I have a beautiful healthy new baby girl! :D

Happy Birthday! I'm being induced this evening so my daughter may share your day! Do you think you can handle sharing a birthday? Or should I cross my legs until after midnight? ;)

*clap clap clap* More please?

N and I have been together a little over 7 years. But we've only been married three tomorrow. I read this, glanced over at him sitting on the couch, and smiled. I know what you mean. :)

Absolutely! I also have bipolar and it caused alot of problems in prior relationships and with my husband. Getting back into therapy was one of the best things I ever did to help our relationship. And to help myself as an individual. Your wife needs therapy. There isn't any other way to put...

Just a thought. But if you're wishing this never happened, it's probably better to stop it now than give it a few more chances. If Cooper continues to fall for Bella, while she feels nothing romantically for him, that's just leading him on. And that's a sure way to ruin a friendship. Just be...

I have a question that may seem a bit childish. You say her relationship with him is long distance and she rarely sees him? Ok. So, if she's afraid to tell him about her new relationship with you, why not just use the distance as an excuse to end the relationship she has with him? It's...

Yes and no. There are a lot. It's just a matter of how many hoops the system forces you to jump through, and whether those hoops are set on fire. ------------------- Very true. And the worry all too often becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Couples try for years, go through procedures, give...

I wasn't "supposed" to be able to have children either (uterine and ovarian cysts which would prevent a healthy pregnancy). And N was told in college that he was most likely sterile (low sperm count). I believe I lost a pregnancy as a teen. I was so scared and stupid I never confirmed it...

Good luck. I look forward to hearing how it all went when you're back around.

When my relationship with P ended, I had a near breakdown. She was my first true loving female partner. She was the first woman I had fallen in love with and been able to explore that love with on a romantic level (my other female love was straight, other female partners I did not love). She was...

It doesn't come across as a lack of value at all, not to me. It actually comes across as having immense value, to the point you would sacrifice your way of expressing your love and reshape that expression in order to keep your love in your life healthily. This is completely unselfish, as the...

It's funny how many men are fine with poly, so long as it's a "one dick fantasy". :eek: My husband is the same way. I can have a girlfriend. We can share a girlfriend. But NO MEN. Luckily for me, I don't want another man. And he is ok with refraining from sex with a girlfriend unless I'm alright...