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Thanks for the feedback. I think you might be right, and too late. Yesterday S emailed me with all this crap about fighting me for him. I lowered the boom, and told him simply "her or me." The gloves are off. I am tired of this bitch emailing me all the time with her shit. I told him I was...

Hi, Redpepper. Basically, after my own analysis of him, he is not truly polyamorous, but a sex addict. As far as feeling sorry for S, she has medical issues, and is broke because she can't work. So he feels sorry for her. She begged to go on the cruise due to the fact that she could never...

Oh well, it's just a crappy marketing scam anyway!

I really wish I had someone to spend v day with...

No, I have his credit card, and he paid for all of it. But, because I am a frequent flyer on the cruise lines, the bookings are under my name. I booked them. I have already thought about just not going and letting him have them. I just know this is not the way I thought polyamorous relationships...

Yes, dear. The red flags have been a-wavin'! I just love the man so much that I don't want to leave. I think it is just a matter of how much shit I will take before I do. Its not a matter of "if" but "when." I deserve a really good guy, someone who respects my feelings as much as I do theirs...

Well, here goes. He now wants to bring another one on the cruise. I am really hurt by this. It completely nullifies anything that was supposed to happen in the beginning. Yes, I communicate with one other, whom he has gotten kind of mean about. She has been with him for over 3 yrs and is very...

I have debated on whether or not to cancel her ticket. I was the one who had to book them. I am glad to get all of the feedback. I thought I was being oversensitive about her behavior. I called him on it and he said it would never happen again. I was pretty pissed off. I am not always nice...

Yes, you are all absolutely correct on so many matters. I do have a feeling that she manipulated her way onto the ship. She told him how she has never been on one and could never afford one. He honestly feels sorry for her. He has wanted to break up with her, but says he doesn't have the...

Journals help a lot. I do not want to stop "playing." I want to learn how to be healthy and understanding towards his needs. I have thought about taking others, and he is perfectly okay with it. I simply do not have the time and energy. I work 10-hour shifts in a retail pharmacy. When I get...

I wish there were a like button on this forum, like the ones on Facebook.

Hi Anneintherain. We did discuss it. The cruise is for me. The other going with us is very outgoing and non-monogamous to him. She is very financially challenged and he felt sorry for her when she said she wanted to go. We have discussed it, and he will be with me all of the time, except for...

i really want to thank all of you for being so open and helpful. I was feeling pretty isolated until I stumbled onto this forum.

Not long. I felt very strongly about him almost immediately. We are very much alike, and we are very comfortable around each other. I met him only 8 months ago. I don't, as a rule, open up to someone that easily, but it hit me rather suddenly, which has made all of this process much more...

You are so right about the "You should dump him" bunch. I have had enough of that. I am in Galveston and he lives in Houston. This forum is already feeling like I have friends in the "same boat." Nice to communicate with people who understand what I am dealing with!

Thanks so much. It is really nice to find this forum. Before, I felt like I would never find anyone who understood some of the feelings I was having. I almost dumped him when I found out about the others in the relationship, not because of the type of relationship, but because he omitted this...

Kegel exercises. That's the answer. It will all be fine.

Hi. I am a 47-yr old female from Texas. I have become involved a bit unwittingly with a man who has polyamorous relationships with more than a few others. He did not tell me when we first started dating about his poly relationships. I only found out after I was already in love with him. I...

Thank you so much for sharing this for me. My guy is so wonderful about reassuring me that he loves me even more than the "others," but sometimes I still feel "less than." I guess it's a girl thing! I appreciate it so much. I find the difficulty for me is the lack of accessibility. I need...

I wish I could hear more from a mans point of view. My guy is really good about reassuring me that he loves me and will never leave me butit is hard as a woman to not feel " lees than" at times. He has more than a few women and it gets hard when I am alone alot. Thanks for sharing all of your...