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Ha! We haven’t had any of those norms here, even before being poly. Our friend has lived with us for a decade, before being poly, and she handles food. My wife pays bills and handles dishes. I clean the house and do trash. It’s odd with other things too, such as how the two of them have...

We waited a decade longer, but other than that you got us there.

Actually y’all got me thinking here. I’ve never had any kind of attraction to a guy, but other than my wife I’ve never looked at a woman and felt any kind of attraction. I guess theoretically I could be bi, but just very demi too. Hmm . . .

As far as I know, straight.

Games? Board games like Wingspan, Terraforming Mars, Ticket to Ride, and Dinosaur Island? Or like Checkers, Life, Monopoly, and Axis and Allies? The Eurogames are more the kind we have, and we have A. LOT.

Whoops, County. Biggest County. Biggest country doesn’t make sense.

More NC people? I’m in the middle, near the biggest [double checking notes] country.

Sorry if ya don’t have any groups over there, NC is still not the best poly place. The Triangle by Raleigh has a group, but still not the most active. Try checking Meet Up also, that’s where I found them.

It’s a hard idea, things in reality are more complex than we often like to show them. I reject the idea that there is ONE person out there for you to fall in love with. Bleh! I reject the idea that love is just romance. I love my wife, and my kids, and my family, and close friends . . . Our...

Ah, online games . . . I’m an oldie since I tend to play Left 4 Dead 2, Team Fortress 2, and Verdun. Haven’t bought a new in years.

My head goes all over the place. I woke up with Disney music (“Reflections” from Mulan) and now it’s music from Les Mis. Why? Who knows??

Yep, that's about right. We've talked about this since K left. We all said it was awkward, and it helped us see the possible future to work on. I talked with C about this, and they agree we are a loving triangle with just the different kinds of love. They also said there's really only two...

Respectful? Sure! I've already left other websites and groups due to being yelled at. I understand that ENM doesn't exactly have set rules, so different people do and see things differently. We're still learning about poly (and Polyamory.com) so I get it if y'all see bad ideas or errors here.

Happy Holidays, everyone! We had [doing math] 11 people at our house Christmas morning, and surprisingly it went well. New Year's Eve we had 15 people that are close enough to us to be counted as Family. I hope everyone starts with a good year.

(This is thoughts running through my head. Writing helps me sort them. I apologize for the mess.) My wife and I had been married about a decade and had two kids when we moved 500 miles away from our home. A great friend of ours, "C," was looking at moving to the same area. We decided it...

My wife realized she was bisexual when in a class on Ethics in seminary. She thought the professor was hot and went, “Wait a second . . .” finding it explained a lot. However, the United Methodist Church did not accept homosexuals as pastors. After graduating she refused to be ordained. A...

Thinking about this again is interesting. When I was first attracted to my wife, a big part was just that I liked her. I honestly don’t think it was because of how she looked. I had known her for years but never thought of dating her until we started talking more. (Wow, I was soooo poly there.)...

Yeah, men often bore me to tears too. Fortunately my hobbies seem to have many more women. An oddity of me, but a positive one!

When it comes to a body, I like curves. Boobs are certainly a factor there, but also hips, thighs, butt, shoulders, a curved face, etc. However, that’s just the looks, because the real person is more important to me overall. Curvy assholes exist too.

Oof. Fair point! My wife and I are actually working on this, on Wednesdays I go out for yoga and she does whatever. It’s hard for me. We’ve been together for decades but I’ve been home relying on her to handle some things I can’t. I totally get this and we are working on it together.