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Great information, thank you its given me heaps to ingest. Its been individulised with these two men. Both agreed we just send a simple text we are doing a "last minute thing & will update"..a key signal that its a meetup & will disclose more info later.. I like to strike a level of...

I have been polysoloing.. I am in early stages with a partner, its been wild & very satisfying.. Weve come across the spontaneity question? My boundary is l update my partners on my meetings.. What happens when something happens? A very unplanned connection? I said to him This can happen. But...

New polypartner Burton.. Fresh 3 weeks

Sounds wonderful. My poly partner are getting our readings done in Dec, I am intruiged to see what it will reveal.

Tania(polysprout non-hierachy) Andy(Poly.M) Since April 2025 Rod(Poly.M) Since August 2025 Peter(Poly.M)Since August 2025

Wow. 2025 has been an awakening & exploring. I am aware some people are just using non-monogamy as sex pass. But l am now in a regular catchup with one guy, where we sched regular catchups, fallout with another who was RA..he is gone because it got way too triggerish for me. I am building an...

It's a bit like a smorgasbord. I've told them l am dating. Relationship anarchy guy says it's none of his business what l do, polyguy says yes if l go out on date but doesn't need details. But l check in with both because it feels respectful.

As l agreed to disclose to my partners if l go on a new date. Do l need to update them if there is further developments with these new dates? & l have had sex with them?... Suggests l ask that question to the both of them.. I love this forum.. Great sounding board

I have few things to consider.. I love both men. With additional dates its like a three course meal... With treats in between.. As my psyche said"girls gotta eat" but its sometimes too much of a smorgsboard.. Enjoy.. Dont be a glutton..😋

Its amusing. As most of them cannot carry any dialogue regarding this dynamic of multiple relationships. So they stop chatting. Its just energy draining interviewing them. I find some monogamous men still want to talk, it makes an interesting date even though they see l am non monogamy...

Thank you. I have already unmatched from guys who are not prepared for in-depth chat about my lifestyle choices. Grateful l am involved with two men who have been doing the right thing to keep things growing.

I've noticed recently on dating sites more men are saying they are ENM. How does one determine if some people are not being genuine, but using the label ENM to just hook up?

I know each relationship is unique. You get to decide what you want, desire & need. I know that poly & RA are not the same. My current person refuses to discuss, so l am having that chat, as l am aware l have wishes, desires & needs. I have had mentor say, just imagine what an ideal RA...

I think RA has set of guidelines, but it's about building individualized relationships with each person you connect with.. Thanks for the resource.

Hi. Is there any good resources for relationship anarchy? .. Its like building a new world..

Ewan is indeed unique.. And l understand that RA is creating individualised relationships, bit trickier than poly. As l am aware my needs & desires are being met without the confines of labels, note he also leans right into Buddhism, in itself carries similiar philosophy.. Expressing &...

It's been a journey for me with polyamory. I am partnered up with a relationship anarchist. It's been a challenge. One of my other partners is poly, which is going well. Any words of wisdom regarding RA?

I think in any relationship style.. Non disclosure will not board well at all. Certainly what we expect is what we should give, giving respect, care & consideration. Ive been exploring ENM as well as Relationship anarchy.. Its been a serious reframing of my relationships especially with intimate...

Thanks to you both.. Love you lots..

Hi All. Is there a place l can look for a worksheet that outlines practical steps on needs & boundaries, like a checklist in establishing a poly relationship? Please?