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    Seeking gentle understanding

    Thank you so much, Meera! I relate very much to the solo-mono energy, too. I honestly am not a big fan of all the energy that goes into labels and am usually pretty good at describing what I want. I'm 50 now and my confidence has grown as I get older. I think we all have good life experiences...
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    Seeking gentle understanding

    Thank you, Kevin..I appreciate your empathy. I'm not interested in making him the bad guy. I suspect something happened with his spouse and I got the bad end of the deal. It's not like me to get like this in a short period, but there was something really rare in the connection. I may not have...
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    Seeking gentle understanding

    I hear where you're coming from and I do know there are players like this. However, I also know this wasn't the case here. Thank you for your well wishes.
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    Seeking gentle understanding

    Thank you so much for your empathy. I agree there's a lot of ghosting. The part that makes this so difficult is this guy is an excellent communicator, has so many good things about him. I think that he went to every effort to try to make me know that this wasn't my fault (even though I still...
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    Seeking gentle understanding

    Thank you so much for your reply, GG. I agree with so much of what you have said. It's this part that is really throwing me and it came up several times. He isn't saying it's about me. He's saying it's "pulling back in general" and this "traditional or non-traditional relationship because it's...
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    Seeking gentle understanding

    Hi all, I am relatively new to this and I apologize in advance if anything I say feels off or if there are pieces I'm missing. I'm seeking support through understanding and some gentle education on what I might be missing. My situation is as follows. I'm a single mother to two almost-adult...
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