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Thank you everyone. I really appreciate you taking the time to think about my situation and reply to me. Lots of things to think about

He did. I’ve actually read that article, trying to figure this out. But I appreciate you linking it. Thank you

I’ve never been with anyone I’ve felt so emotionally connected with and had such good communication with (although this week the communication levels feel bad). I’ve had a lot of relationships. It feels rare.

The thing I’m struggling to figure out is whether the fact that he has suggested the one-penis policy, and then a throuple when that didn’t fly, de facto makes him misogynistic/fetishistic/transphobic. Misogynistic because he is asking for something unequal, fetishistic because he thinks...

That’s fair, thank you. I think I need to take some time to really process what everyone has said, rather than hold on to what I was hoping for

I’ve tried talking to my friends already about being poly, and they all seem to have different levels of lack of respect for polyamory. Thinking it means people don’t really love each other. Stuff like that. It’s not great Me worrying about misogyny/fetishistic/transphobic stuff has all been...

I would never invite a third person right now. Our communication isn’t good enough for it and I clearly don’t trust his motivations. What I’m trying to figure out is if there is any point in me holding onto this relationship. He’s made it pretty clear that he’s not into two-people-monogamy long...

I am, but I’m wondering if I’m being fair to him in having those qualms. I think I wouldn’t be feeling this way so much if he hadn’t initially been really into a one-penis policy. Honestly, I’d love a conversation about this too. Do one-vagina policies exist, and if not, why not? LOL Is that...

I'm super new to ENM and polyamory. I've been with my bf 6 months and he's always been clear he wants some kind of non-monogamy. He's always talked about wanting a throuple, but also having an open relationship where he can sleep with whoever he likes (he's straight), and I can only sleep with...