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That is exactly what went through my head initially, I almost felt like my husband was viewing me as an object more than a partner and person in that moment. Needless to say the past couple of days have been tenuous at best between us

Thank you so much for this! I was shocked when he asked me about this, so your response pretty much aligns with mine.

This is probably a bit of an odd question. But my husband, after hearing about things with the guy I have started seeing, said that he would love to watch me with the other guy. I can understand why he would want to. I didn’t know how to respond. I haven’t said anything to my other partner...

Hi and welcome!

It’s been a bit since I’ve been on as I was finishing up my Masters degree. I am ready to really give this lifestyle a go now, I’ve gotten over some of the guilt of wanting another man but I really want to pour myself into things with him. He has been patient with me thankfully over the past...

Thank you for your open and honest post. Guilt, even though my husband wanted this lifestyle for us, still consumes me after a date with another man, couple that with my husbands jealous tendencies it only compounds itself because I cannot be truly open with him. I say that to let you know you...

Jersey here. Not terribly far from Mass. I wish you the best on getting this arranged!

As a more conservative leaning woman I honestly have not struggled with it competing against my values. Love comes in many forms and expressed differently for many.

Communication and setting rules have been incredibly important for my husband and me. We found out early on that he tends to not love hearing the intimate details about my other partner (size-related tinges of jealousy), so we made the rule that we would not ask questions to which we might not...

This was something my husband approached me about after a friend of his told him about the lifestyle. I think I’ve always had tendencies, although never acted on it, to have multiple partners, so this seemed like a natural way to explore it. My husband is seeing two other women and I have just...

Hi! I am Michelle from the Garden State New to this whole poly world and looking forward to learning more about it. Particularly navigating the emotional connections. Just recently dipped our toes into seeing others.