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Thank you for that feedback! You understood it perfectly. Though the original polycule was a star constellation (with Exmeta being at the center and when I joined she had 6 partners total I think) which kinda broke apart. "Buddy" is very adamant that much has to change before he even considers...

Love has always strange to me. Typical mommy issues story, with a SAHM who thought it was the worst thing ever to happen to her. Her voice was the one who filled my head with extremely low self-esteem. Recipe for toxic relationships. When a boyfriend decided to SA me, I thought to myself, "When...

So, update following the meeting: The meeting was truly a polycule "family meeting." We took turns talking about boundaries, and basically talked a lot about the podcast people for Multiamory, to help make sure we're all on the same page and what will cause us to end relationships. It felt like...

Update before the meeting even starts Birch and her mom gave me a 10 day eviction notice, and according to Google the law states that no rent payments means that 10 days is all she has to give me. So my rent free place that was close to my boyfriend's and the only expectation that my school was...

I'm glad that there will be time to talk it out and clear up misunderstanding plus allow me to apologize for causing hurt (though it was not on purpose, they were hurt by my actions). Yes my therapist isn't new to her job. I made a mistake by assuming my previous discussions with "Mapel" were...

My bf "Maple" and his OSO "Willow" are the main ones giving "Oak" the silent treatment. And I don't speak to "Willow" enough to feel the silent treatment. "Maple" kinda just stopped responding to me and left me on read. "Birch" has been with them longer than I had and I went to her to ask for...

I want to agree but I should respect their want of space? How do I respect their want of time and space but not be silent?

How long have you been with your polyamorous bf? 8 months officially dating, 11 months knowing each other. Was he the first polyamorous relationship you've had? My other partner and I were in a FWB situation that turned serious. We tried to stay casual since I was moving across the country for...

That's why I feel so confused. My only thought was he didn't tell his partners he was thinking about me in that way. And we blindsided everyone. I'm trying to process that the person I was attracted to was willing to be physical, but is not allowed to pursue this new development. I'm hitting a...

Hello, I'm new to polyamory, but been ethically non-monogamous for a few years now. My boyfriend was in an established polycule before we met. They welcomed me in, and our kitchen table polycule seemed good. I've been working through my hypersexuality wants and desires with my therapist and...