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Oh, and on this one: it was a bit of a test to see if he was willing to crawl back to his partner and talk to her about it (he did). But also, I would not want to be involved with him further if the meta is not fully on board with what we agree. Her question reeks of insecurity after we had a...

Hey Kevin, Thank you for sharing this perspective. As a minimum, I would have expected transparency to go both ways: “btw, this is the sort of thing I would share with my primary”. His excuse that we had never discussed this feels lame: it is simply impossible to discuss everything at a...

To be honest, the thought of him touching me again is making my skin crawl right now. I could have perhaps gotten over the overstep of sharing the number of times we had sex with his NP if he had actually been super apologetic and supportive after I explained at length how that made me feel...

Sorry, I was not explicit enough. He could have conveyed the information that she has a new partner with a higher risk profile, and kept the rest of the details to himself: that he was surprised the two of them slept together on their first meeting after only chatting for a couple of weeks (I...

But she did discuss it with him - she was the one who asked him specifically how many times we had sex during our time together. When I first asked why she’d want to know something like that, he had no idea why and said that I would need to ask her. He then explained in a voice message that she...

Thank you for the time to read and the considered reply. The parts I enjoyed in our interaction were probably more surface-level: the conversations, common music tastes, the ability to travel together sometimes (we both work consulting jobs). We both have kids (he is divorced), so we connected...

I (42F) was ambivalent about starting a new connection with a guy (47M) who also had another connection starting out at the same time. We live in different countries, the other connection was local to him. We started talking on Bumble at the end of November. The way things have played out...