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    Long Distance Woes

    Nycindie... Your advice was well received. It helped to me to look at the situation in a different light and eventually come to terms that it might really be over. It is hard to condense 6 yrs of a relationship into a few paragraphs, so I felt that there was a lot of ground that I wasn't able to...
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    Long Distance Woes

    That's kinda what I was afraid of, but I guess I needed to hear it from others. When they made plans to move, it was pretty much a done deal without my input. The wife did mention wanting me to live closer to them, but with the way the shape the economy has been in, I wouldn't have been able to...
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    Long Distance Woes

    Over 6 years ago, I met and developed a relationship with a married couple. 3 years into the relationship, they moved several states away. Even though we have opened up the terms of our relationship, I feel like it is waning between us and I really don't want it to. The more time passes, the...
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    How to approach a third?

    I was a single lesbian who had a profile on a GLBT site when a married woman took an interest and wrote to me and told me why my profile caught her interest. She told me up front that she was happily married, bi-curious, and had no intention of ever leaving her husband. I don't think she knew at...
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    Hello World!

    Yeah, 6 years is a long time, but our actual time together is scarce these days, so right now it is kind of at a lull and I'm not sure any of us knows how to proceed forward or if we need to consider going our separate ways. For the first couple of years, we lived an hour apart and got...
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    Hello World!

    Hello everyone! I've one of the new ones here. I've done some lurking around a bit and found a lot of useful information here. I figure it would be a good idea to go ahead and introduce myself. I am a 37 year old female who has been in an off and on again relationship with a married couple for...
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    Friendship vs Love?

    Either they need to eliminate discriminatory references defining marriages as between a man and a woman (or two people in general), or start recognizing alternative forms of intimate relationships agreed upon by those who choose to be involved in the agreement. I tend to think it would be less...
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    Friendship vs Love?

    Thank you very much for the links. I am new here. Lots of interesting stuff to read and catch up on. I am looking forward to learning and participating in these forums.
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    Friendship vs Love?

    You know, when I think about friendship, I think about all the ties we have with various people that we regard as friends. Why do we have a need to have multiple friends? Because each friendship serves a different purpose for each one of us in different ways. It's also unrealistic to ask one...
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