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Why do you do that? Do you suspect that he is attracted to your lover in some way?

Nathan, you seem so cute, and you have a very refreshing attitude towards sex. If only all guys were the same, I think a lot of relationships would be less stressful, and longer lasting. I see that you use the term bull to describe Ewan. I guess this means you're both still into that cuckold...

How does my husband cope with it? He does not want to know that much about it, he insists that I keep that side of my life seperate from us and our family. I respect his wishes. At first he was mad, but not that mad. He excepts that he has a very low libido, he has no problem with this and...

I would say that it is very common. It certainly is in my case. As you say though Nathan, I think it usually goes unsaid. It's a macho pride thing with some men, they cant come to terms with the fact that their wife needs another man to be satisfied sexually. You guys seem to have a great...

Nathan, I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy reading your posts. I think it's great that you give your consent to Aurelie loving and having a sexual relationship with another man. It's even better that you seem to be doing everything you can to make her feel okay and secure about it, but...

So happy that things are going so well for you, Aurelie. I think it's fantastic that the four of you are starting to form a close unit. It's especially good seeing that it is Nathan that is the driving force behind it. He must be a very mature and confident young man. It must be lovely for you...

I have a friend who's marriage is like the one the op describes. They have two children together, but no longer love each other. They stay together for two reasons, the kids and finance. They get on well and still care about each other, they are still friends. It works because there is no...

I have also been moved by Nathan's posts. It was nice to hear his side of the story. There is so much love between these two. They will be fine. The way Nathan articulates the love he has for Aurelie and Max is just so beautiful; it's no wonder they love him so much. Aurelie, you're very lucky...

I have not read anything in Aurelie's posts that makes me wince or squirm. Maybe it's a man thing. To me, Aurelie comes across as an honest and caring girl who is trying to make things as right as she can for everyone in her life, and she seems to be doing a great job. You seem to be taking...

@FigNewtonian, if Geoff were to read Aurelie's own posts, he would see how much she loves him, and how he and their son are obviously her main priorities. Knowing that Geoff has now read this thread, I do wish that I had used less inflammatory language when making my own point. My point was...

That's good to hear, Aurelie. It's interesting that you let Geoff read this post, and a relief that he wasn't upset by it. Maybe you could persuade him to post himself, so we might see things from his perspective. It's nice that the four of you get on so well. You seem to have the poly...

That's fantastic that both your men have met and got on so well. You must be both relieved and happy. Well done.

I was a single mother like you, with a child the same age as yours. I met my husband, who is a kind, decent, hardworking loving man, a man I fell in love with. He ticked all the boxes for me, except one. Sex! He also bonded with my child, as your bf has with yours, he was a natural father. They...

Annabel, you have totally misunderstood what I said. I think all types of roleplay are fantastic, including the roleplay that Aurelie and Geoff are now partaking in. I think it will help their situation a lot. The sick and worthless comment was aimed towards people, men or women, who get a...

Okay, Geoff's cock is small in comparison to Ewan's. I did not say he had ED problems. I said he had premature ejaculation (PE) issues. Aurelie herself says, "I know he has helped me far more than I have helped him. The only thing I have been able to help him with was his sexual shyness and...

I don't think I'm putting a spin on what Aurelie has said at all. It's more me trying to read between the lines. I stand by what I have said. If Aurelie thinks I have got it wrong or have been disrespectful to her or Geoff, she can say. I don't think I have, and certainly have not meant to be...

People have different definitions of what certain words mean, don't they? Some people have different ideas about poly relationships, and what poly means to them. I do not use the word cuckold in a derogatory way, my definition of cuckolding is this-- When a faithful boyfriend is in a loving...

NYCindie, I haven't got time to reply to your post in detail, as it's early here, and I have to go to work. I hope to get the time later though. What I do want to say is that I have no problems with Aurelie whatsoever. The opposite is true and if you read the post you will realise what I have...

However, the fact remains that she needs Ewan to satisfy her sexual needs. In her own words, she has told us that Geoff cannot, and will never be able to satisfy her like Ewan can. I assume that this is because of Geoff's sexual problems and Ewan's superior size and staying power, combined with...

I am not surprised. When it comes to a relationship where the woman is seeing another man for sex, and her own bf/husband is mono, there is a fine line between poly and cuckolding! I have said from the start that in Aurelie's and Geoff's case, she is cuckolding him, and as I said before, there...