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NYCIndie, Thank you for this note. Today was not a good day, to say the least. We went out last night, had a great dinner, then had a huge misunderstanding when we went to bed, and I ended up getting very upset when meyesekrit didn't mean anything (she had responded to something in her sleep...

Erosa, You hit the nail on the head a number of times. I don't want to ask her to delete a night, because I really don't think "my issues" are grounded in reality - I think I'm creating, subconsciously, these "problems" to get something (though I don't know what). We did, however, just spend an...

Sure! I'll add you!

Delightfully apropos, given my nickname. Thank you for reminding me that I need to show her respect first. Needful jealousy is disrespectful because it makes her less her, and more one of my "things." (or am I wrong?)

Me too. It's a Helluva good thread.

<grin> She says it's issues that have nothing to do with E. When I'm not upset, I agree. Jealousy issues - not really, when it was casual sex without a relationship. Sexual issues - yes. Communication issues - big yes. Life goals - not really. Existing insecurity - I didn't think so, but yes...

She said recently (last night) that she was ready to end it. I wasn't. I can be irresponsible, to say the least. I don't clean the house. I don't do a good job at finances. She and I don't do a good job at finances. I was having health issues, and had fallen out of shape. She felt trapped...

I apologize in advance for the length of this thread. My wife, meyesekrit, is in a long-standing relationship with E, who is a friend of mine, too. E and I have our own things we go do (and we're both very straight, so that's not an issue). E and she have been together almost a year now. She...

For what it's worth... I hear a panicked cry for help, here, brother. I've never been on a sub, uh, that's not moored, so I don't know what that does to you. I've been around the military for most of my life, though, up to having a son in the Corps and helping his girlfriend through...

Ha! I noticed something interesting. A lot of my jealousy was aggravated by "exclusion." When she (meyesekrit) was with him, and I felt left out, my jealousy problem was horribly magnified. Yesterday she was going to spend the night with him. She forgot the camera. He and I exchanged some...

Hello all. Doing the obligatory first post this is who I am thing. I'm from the east coast, sail (duh) amongst other things. Married more or less happily for 21 years. I've always liked the idea of my wife having sex with "others" as a form of kink. Encouraged her in her explorations. She's had...