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Hey y'all--you are so great, thanks. It's really reassuring to hear all your perspectives. It's been clear to me for a long time that Dan isn't partner material, and I'm definitely looking for new love of that type. Some of what's going on right now is that my domestic partner J (we are in love...

Hi all. Thanks for the wisdom and support on this forum. I'm in a bit of a crisis right now and could use some guidance. (I'm sorry if this is too long. Feel free to skip to skim the back story to get to the questions at the end. I'm terrible at being brief!) Last year I fell in love with Dan...

Hey Ransom, It sounds like y'all need to take some time and do some trust building. Don't be in a hurry to plan any particular future. Bonds formed during emotional crisis can feel so intense, and that sense of urgency that comes with them can catapult us into all sorts of other dramas. I'd...

Hey y'all, Thanks for being such thoughtful people. I need help answering a question. I'm in a non-hierarchical poly relationship. My partner has another partner who has never done polyamory before and is only begrudgingly trying it. He tells me she doesn't want to know anything about his...

Thanks, nycindie. I realized my insecurity had less to do with polyamory and more to do with the diminished quality of time we'd spent together recently--and needing to further clarify how we each wanted the relationship to progress, and at what pace. The jealousy I felt about his in-town lover...

Hi all, I'm new here. Thanks for listening. I'm falling in love with someone who lives in another state; he's also falling in love with me. It's still fairly new -- we've been seeing each other for seven months -- but we talk almost every day and visit each other every three or four weeks. He's...