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I think people may think that it makes you less of a man, or that you're not man enough for your girl. I don't mind that talk in a sexual situation, when it's a turn-on for me. If not having a huge cock, not being able to go for however long you like, being a dom, and an aggressive person...

That's right, Rjsolo. The most important thing to me is that she is as happy as she can possibly be. Her happiness is more important to me than my own. I think this is a common theme for cuckolds. They put their woman's wants and needs first. Well, I wish you the best of luck, and I hope it...

Thanks, NYCindie. Yes, Aurelie does have a lot more confidence in telling us what she wants. And what she asks for, she usually gets. haha. She is also much more secure and gets less worried about hurting me, or us breaking up at some point. She loves what she has now, and is very happy at the...

It's really about making her feel as loved and secure as we can. She is a beautiful and loving person who worries about people and our situation. Both Ewan and I work at letting her know how loved she is, and that she can have what she wants. What she has wanted is what she has now. She is...

I agree, cuckolding can have all sorts of different meanings for different people. A few posters discussed this at length in one of Aurelie's threads, and came to all sorts of conclusions. We do have that dynamic in our relationship. It is language that we use. However, it does not go beyond...

There are only four off us in our group. I'm mono. My girl only has sex with me and her lover. His wife is the only one that goes outside of our group. She is very careful, and gets tested regularly. She does not enjoy having outside relationships anywhere near as much as she used to. We don't...

Thanks. I agree there is no greater turn-on, at least for me. Good luck in finding a metamour for your wife. I would look for a guy who is much better endowed than you, and also more skilful at making your wife orgasm. That's what turns me on so much. I dont know why, it just does.

No you're not, and yes I am, and yes he is, and as much as I like you being with him, I also really miss you when you're not here. A lot! :(

Yes we are. It's fun! I love it, and so does Aurelie. She is a bit shy about admitting it, though, as you can see from her reply above. :)

Yes, we are all very happy with the way things are at the moment. Aurelie and I actually make love a lot. There is plenty of sexual activity between us. It has lessened of late because she is seeing more of Ewan I'm happy for her to do so. We still make plenty of time for us though. I wasn't...

Well, if the fantasy works for you, try it out. It may be that the reality doesn't work out. But if it does, great. You won't know till you try. I agree with your wife. It really doesn't matter why you like things. In fact, talking, thinking or analysing too much can take the pleasure out of...

Your sexual orientation can shift around on the Kinsey scale. This is most common when you're young, but I guess it can happen at any age. I identify as straight. I do not look at men and find them sexually attractive at all. The idea of having sex with a guy does not repulse me, but it doesn't...

My girl Aurelie would not want me to be with another woman. Sex would be one thing, but if I loved another like I love her, she says she could not cope with that. She thinks this is unfair, and makes her feel like a hypocrite. She is asking me to accept something that would upset her so much if...

My girl also has a Dom/Bull, BDSM is not something I like or understand. However I respect the fact that she was with him before me, and also that she enjoys that side of her sexualality, and that she does not get that from me, although we tried, and had fun. It was fun though because we had a...

I think that is an understandable reaction to have, and that was the point of my question. How do other guys cope with that?

I guess I look at things from a mono perspective. I find it impossible to imagine loving anyone other than my girl.

Ha ha, your welcome.:)

I guess thats right, and it does work very well for us.

Really, that's interesting. My P.E was always much worse when going with a new partner. This was because of nerves, the more nervous and anxious I was, the quicker I would climax, and when going with someone for the first time I would be uptight anyway, and nervous about being nervous, so it was...

Yes, at the moment Aurelie does engage in sex with him much more than she does with me. This is because both his wife and I have agreed that they can see each other whenever they want. Before, they had set nights together, which they still do have, but now he can also come to my house to see her...