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    Mono very hesitantly thinking about poly

    I have very poor self-esteem. I do have her on a pedestal. I always have. And I used to see only my ideal of her. But that's no longer true. It took time but I eventually managed to break down the ideal to see the reality of her for all the beautiful aspects but also many many flaws. I have no...
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    Mono very hesitantly thinking about poly

    She's extremely frightened that this time around it will end like the last times, me ending it abruptly because I was too afraid to be with her. This is understandable. I also told her that the poly lifestyle scares the shit out of me, and that I can't guarantee that I can make this work. But I...
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    Mono very hesitantly thinking about poly

    I do have a sense of inferiority. It's a severe problem for me and I'm currently seeing a therapist about it (among other things). Regarding the similarity to friendship, I couldn't help but think about how, even though we all have friends (plural), most of us have a best friend. The friend we...
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    Mono very hesitantly thinking about poly

    I've known this girl for 10 years. I'll spare you the extremely long story and skip straight to the bulletpoints. We've known each other for 10 years. We are each others' best friend. We've briefly dated twice. Both times I ended it. We've always been in love with each other for basically the...
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